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“ Religion is like holding on to a rock in the middle of a raging river; faith is learning how to swim.”
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The Beach

There is something about the beach. It renews the spirit and desire for life. Standing against something so wonderfully made and powerful. It is during these moments that it reminds me how big my God is that he spoke all this into existence.  It is I during my weakness that I relega
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March 18, 2010 | Uncategorized

The Year That Was

Well  i am back here again! Nothin can compare to the year that was last year. Last September my wife's mom and dad were killed in a head on collision. My wife became administrtor of the estate and our lives have not been the same. We are trying to help out w
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March 17, 2010 | Uncategorized

katiesboys wrote at 02:39 PM on Mar 20, 2010

Thank you so much for the friend invite! I am so gald you are here. Yu have been through a lot and know that I am praying for you, your wife and your kids! May God bless you on this journey! God Bless~Katie

martygoldman wrote at 01:24 PM on Mar 20, 2010

Thanks so much for the friend invite!! I love you are becoming friends with many!! Be looking forward to getting to know you!!......Marty

Victory09 wrote at 10:21 AM on Mar 20, 2010

I am honored with the friend invitation, and would love the chance to be your friend. This community has filled up my life to overflowing, and I pray it does the same for you. I am so sorry to hear about the very sudden loss you and your wife experienced last fall. I cannot even imagine.... Call upon me anytime...I am here for you. Kimberly

trinut001 wrote at 07:30 AM on Mar 20, 2010

Thank you for the friend invite! You have come to the right place. I look forward to following your journey! Let me know if you need anything. Have a great weekend! Kim

hotmommalooksgood wrote at 11:59 PM on Mar 19, 2010

Hey thanks for the friend invite :) and welcome to a Wonderful place it's full of life, love, understanding, and hope and if you need anything and it's something i can help you with just call on me and i will do what i can to help you, have a good weekend sending love and light your way .....karla

JenniferKlim wrote at 06:09 AM on Mar 19, 2010

Hey - thanks for the friend invite! I can never have too many and find myself more and more here looking to make connections with people who have the same goals I do! How is your journey? Seems you've been here longer than I have - although I did begin living a BFL lifestyle about 3 years before the book came out, lol. Hope to hear form you soon and that you have a wonderful weekend, take care! ~jen ;)(:

LoveLightLead wrote at 09:00 PM on Mar 18, 2010

So very happy to be friends!! What a blessing it is to have love and support here!! You can do this, if you keep taking one step at a time and stay connected to those who will stand by you each step of the way!!! Thanks for your example of the courage to try!! Lisa =)

vaharrisons wrote at 07:41 PM on Mar 18, 2010

Thank you so much for the friend invite! I love the profile pic! It looks like you are having so much fun. Isn't that what life is about - - - fun, love, and happiness?!?!? Enjoy this wonderful day. I'm here for you if you need anything. You deserve every ounce of happiness! Smiles ~ Jen

Mellie wrote at 06:37 PM on Mar 18, 2010

YAY a new friend! I love making new friends! I hope you are having an amazing journey here! If I can help in any way you let me know! I'm always around!

Penny wrote at 06:23 PM on Mar 18, 2010

Thank you so much for the friend invite! Great to have you with us. Please let me know if I can help with anything along the way. ~Penny

becomingfit wrote at 09:22 AM on Mar 18, 2010

Hi there! Thank you so much for the friend invite! I look forward to seeing you around and getting to know you over the months ahead. Best wishes as you journey on! ~Elizabeth~

GmaKimme wrote at 11:07 AM on Jan 19, 2010

Hello! Well, you're in the right place for people to understand you now! Continue to lean on us - we lean on each other. Blessings! HUGS Kim in Colorado

DeannaB wrote at 10:51 AM on Jan 17, 2010

hi just checking it to see how goes it

lilybees wrote at 07:29 PM on Nov 14, 2009

Hope you are doing well. Melanie

Discodancer wrote at 08:12 PM on Oct 07, 2009

Love to see you at the Denver Transformation Conference on October 16th to 18th-Spencer

carrieg wrote at 11:25 PM on Sep 22, 2009

Hope you are having a teriffic week.

LeslieGroft wrote at 01:31 PM on Jul 06, 2009

Just stopping in to see how you are doing. I hope all is well with you and yours. This transformation has been such an incredible blessing in my life. I hope you find it to be also. If you need anything, I'd love to help. Leslie

ready4change1 wrote at 10:18 PM on Jun 18, 2009

Just stopping by to introduce myself and say thank you for being a part of this great community! You are valued here and we are all in this together! I support you. :) -Andrew

LeslieGroft wrote at 09:46 AM on Jun 08, 2009

Thank you for the friend request! I look forward to getting to know you better as we both "transform". If there is ever anything that I can do for you, I'd love to help. What a precious little one you have in your arms--hold on tight! Leslie

ikigai wrote at 02:42 PM on May 29, 2009

Welcome! Great that you joined us. You will find a great community of support and encouragement here. This is a great opportunity to discover or rediscover a lot of great things about yourself and you will be amazed of how far you'll get if you put a little bit of action everyday. Let me know if there is anything I can do to help. Your new friend in Transformation - Ikigai

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I Am

a man in transition A few years ago I was ordained and licensed by the Southern Baptist Association. After much prayer we left the Church we were attending for a larger one. Although we were walking by faith we believed God had a plan. On September 19th 2009 we discovered God reason for moving us. We would rely on this new Church like never before. At about 10:30 am that morniing both my wife's mom and dad were killed in a violent head on collision. It's been 6 months and the sting has not lessened yet I know it's time we focus on ourselves. If we don't our children will be going this same situation in a few years. God has blessed us beyond measure and we must get back to where we were spiritually and physically just a short time ago.

My Favorite Charity

American Cancer Society - Relay For Life

To me, Transformation Means

Being in a different place than where I am now.

My Goals

Fit By 40

Deadline: November 26, 2010

My Intentions

To complete this transformation and to not give up. I want to be a living example to all three of my sons.

To beat boredom in the gym I would like to hike half-dome, complete a triathalon and to go on a white water rafting adventure this year.

Who I'd Like to Inspire

Anyone and everyone who needs it as bad as I do but most importantly to my wife.

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