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“Becoming me...at last ;-)”

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I am the real deal. I am SO not into phony people. So as your genuine friend....I am loyal & I tell it like it is. I'm not one to lie to your face & talk behind your back. I promise not to tell you what you want to hear just to be popular. I promise to not pretend to be something I'm not. I promise to not jump on the bandwagon at the risk of losing your valuable friendship. And I promise not to sugarcoat things for you. As my friend, I promise to be there for you when you need me. I promise to encourage & support you in what you do. I promise to listen and let you go through what you need to go through to get to the other side. I promise not to judge you. I promise to respect you & cherish your friendship...always. -------------------------------------------------------- I am a single mom to my amazing 12 yr old daughter, Alyssa. Recently I have been diagnosed with ADD at 46 yrs of age. I've had some other serious health issues but thanks to someone very close to my heart, my health issues have done a complete 180 & I've come a long way. So right now I'm at a place where I'm ready to face the demons in my life & work towards being the woman that I know is within me. I'm here to heal...so that I can be at peace within myself. -------------------------------------------------------- My blog is private for personal reasons. If you'd like to read my blog, simply send me a buddy add request & I'll approve it. -------------------------------------------------------- I choose spend time very little time in the forums. My time is better spent reading personal blogs, emailing one-on-one & getting to know you that way. I find the forums take my time & attention away from the real work that I need to do & that's within me. By building one-on-one relationships...I find it's more rewarding to me. ~ Bella

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Petronella wrote at 07:10 AM on Oct 31, 2008

Happy Halloween!! Have a fantastic weekend! Lots of love and light to you! Petronella

Heather wrote at 11:20 AM on Oct 03, 2008

Hey Bella! Hope you are doing great!! Where have ya been???

socrkx wrote at 04:24 PM on Sep 30, 2008

You must be gone - just stopping by to say hello. I hope all is well in your world. BJ

Mark wrote at 07:18 AM on Sep 14, 2008

Have I told you today how wonderful you are? Well you are!...Mark

Harley06 wrote at 09:48 PM on Sep 11, 2008

Hi just reading over some old comments and was wondering if you were still in it so I came by to say hello and wish you the best.

Petronella wrote at 02:14 PM on Aug 26, 2008

I just wanted to wish you a really nice week :) and have done that a few times, but suddenly the text changes. Who/what is changing my text?? I didn't write that in the other box. So weird, it must be some kind of bug? I'm so curious about what happened.

Heather wrote at 10:58 AM on Aug 17, 2008

Miss you Bella!!!

Bobbyg1018 wrote at 08:38 PM on Aug 15, 2008

hey just stoppin by to say hi! How have you been?

Weldonba wrote at 09:50 AM on Aug 15, 2008

Bella, missing you my friend. ((hugggggs)) :D Beverly

socrkx wrote at 06:09 PM on Aug 07, 2008

Hey Bella - Just stopping by to let you know I was thinking about you. I haven't seen you around and miss your input. I hope all is well and you will return to the boards and share your wonderful spirit!

AsYouWish wrote at 09:50 AM on Aug 06, 2008

Good Morning Sher!!! I have missed having you dropping by. I hope your travels in Cali di you well. Hope to hear from you soon. Have a great Wednesday. Your Friend, Paul.

teachnmommy wrote at 03:50 PM on Aug 03, 2008

Hey Bella, just droppin by to wish you a happy and healthy Sunday...Mona

Cincinnati_Dave wrote at 07:18 PM on Jul 31, 2008

Bella my friend just keepin' it warm til you get home. Peace, Dave

Heather wrote at 12:02 PM on Jul 31, 2008

Hey Bella...hope things are going great for you!!!

DaveK wrote at 10:15 PM on Jul 29, 2008

HI from Dave!! Didn't want you to feel neglected... thinking about you. Hope all is well with you and your family. Dave

Laura wrote at 10:41 AM on Jul 29, 2008

Just thinking of you! Have a beautiful day ,BEAUTIFUL FRIEND! Hugs of support,Laura

socrkx wrote at 08:39 AM on Jul 29, 2008

Good morning Bella! I hope your trip to California helped you through the process of healing. I was just thinking about you and wanted to drop in and say Have a Great Day!

Petronella wrote at 04:43 AM on Jul 29, 2008

Hi, I love your profile and your blog. You are doing a great work with your Transformation. We have almost the same goals and intentions, thank you for adding me! Love / Petronella

Bobbyg1018 wrote at 05:39 PM on Jul 28, 2008

Hey i want all my close transformers to go welcome Olivia24 please she is an awesome person......and i just got her to make a profile Thanks guys

Bobbyg1018 wrote at 03:58 PM on Jul 28, 2008

and how are you doing bella!? just stopping by to say hi ~Bobby Grimes

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My Favorite Charity

Supporting our military....it's the least I can do for all that they do for us. // Will also get involved with an AIDS program as I lost 2 brothers with AIDS. And...Red Cross to help others in their time of need.

To me, Transformation Means

Turning my dreams into goals & reality. Moving beyond what I have only imagined & dreamed of emotionally, mentally, spiritually & physically... making those a part of who I am...and my daily life.

My Goals

Physically: So far I've lost 95 lbs. I'm more than 1/2 way to my goal so the hardest part is over. -------------------------------------------------------- Mentally: Working on getting rid of that foggyness & forgetfulness. I'd like that sharp mindedness & clarity back. -------------------------------------------------------- Emotionally: My ultimate desire is to become that wonderful Proverbs 31 woman..."An Excellent Wife who can find? She is worth far more than rubies." Even though I strive to be a virtuous woman...I'm a Latina so I also strive get back to being that incredibly sexy, confident & vibrant woman I know is within me. -------------------------------------------------------- Relationships: I want to be a good friend, cousin, daughter, mother...basically someone people can rely on. But as far as men go...I'm staying away for a LONG time. -------------------------------------------------------- Spiritually: I want to know God is here in my life & with me. I want a personal relationship with God. I don't want just to believe..I want to know it..& feel it...genuinely. But most of all...I want to know what the heck he has planned for me because I'm one very confused person about all these trials & tribulations.

My Intentions

My intentions are ** Replace the negative self-talk with positive outcomes for myself ** Go through the past years of pain...walk through it...really feel it once & for all...forgive, be at peace & move on ** Learn ADD coping skills to deal with what life throws at me emotionally ** Learn how to plan my life, days, events ** Become organized & reliable ** Bury the low self-worth once & for all & replace it with self-acceptance & confidence (& sexyness) ** Laugh at myself & enjoy this time THAT'S why I'm here.

Who I'd Like to Inspire

Everything I do...I do for my daughter.

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