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“Determination and Perserverance...there is no other option”
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I'm in therapy to help my daughter through this time...I need the tools.  But I do have to say that without having been through one challenge and going through one right now...I wouldn't have been able to be there for her as well as I have been.  I know with all my heart that being here
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March 4, 2010 | Year 2010

Things I know....

Following up on my blog from earlier today....THINGS I HAVE LEARNED and KNOW....I need God in my lifeI need to be active in this community every single dayI need to forgive myselfI need to love and allow myself to be lovedThis much I know....
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February 16, 2010 | Year 2010

LoveLightLead wrote at 11:26 AM on Mar 18, 2010

Hey Sher!! It's Lisa Neal! How are you lady? I'm great!! Thinking about you today!! Have a good weekend!! Lisa =)

LD wrote at 05:09 PM on Feb 21, 2010

Hi Pretty Lady~Just thinking about you! Hope all is well! Take care and keep moving forward~with love, Lor

Carolynn wrote at 12:57 PM on Feb 19, 2010

Hope you are doing well! Have a great weekend. Carolynn

Red48 wrote at 04:59 PM on Feb 15, 2010

Bella, I cannot think of a more beautiful picture! How are you? So much love for you always and no matter what! ~ MaryPat

martygoldman wrote at 06:07 AM on Feb 04, 2010

Been thinking about you and I hope you are well and know that you are loved!!!....Marty

Carolynn wrote at 08:31 PM on Feb 02, 2010

You came to my mind today and I wanted to stop in and say I hope things are going better for you and Alyssa. You are always in my prayers. Carolynn

ltraz65 wrote at 06:04 PM on Jan 28, 2010

Hi there Sher! I just wanted to stop by and throw some (((HUGS))) your way! Thank you for being YOU! Here's to a magnificent weekend ahead my friend!!! ~Lisa

Bobbyg1018 wrote at 07:07 PM on Jan 27, 2010

LOVE YOU SHER!

kathytnt wrote at 04:38 PM on Jan 26, 2010

Hey Beautiful! Hope you are having a fabulous day! Love and hugs from Kathy!

Coach-Stoney wrote at 04:27 PM on Jan 26, 2010

Hey gorgeous- Dropping you off lots of love and you have been in my prayers..Love you..Coach

EverettHerbert wrote at 06:47 PM on Jan 25, 2010

Hi Beautiful. A ghost from the past sending you love and best wishes for your hearts most noble desires. Love you. Everett

praju_usa wrote at 06:31 PM on Jan 20, 2010

Dear Bella... Hope you and Alyssa are doing well. I just stopped by to say hello and wish you both a fabulous week. Good times are on their way. Best~Prasad.

ltraz65 wrote at 10:16 PM on Jan 15, 2010

Hi Bella! I just wanted stop by and let ya know that I was thinking about you, and that you and your daughter are deep within my prayers. Love & Light, ~Lisa

Carolynn wrote at 01:56 PM on Jan 15, 2010

Hope you are having a great day!!

I_M_possible wrote at 08:56 PM on Jan 08, 2010

Thanks for the Albuquerque welcome! My thoughts are with you and your daughter. Stay strong:)

cherishedi wrote at 05:28 PM on Jan 08, 2010

Sending you loads of love and hugs today! Love you, Mona

BartB wrote at 07:51 PM on Jan 06, 2010

Bella, you and your daughter have been and will continue to be in my thoughts and prayers. Hope all is well. God bless!~~Bart

snaranjo wrote at 12:05 PM on Jan 06, 2010

Hi Bella! Hope you're well :-). Would love to hear from you. Your bud, Santiago (Jimmy) Naranjo

cherishedi wrote at 10:16 AM on Jan 05, 2010

It was good talking to you last night Bella, hope all is well with you today! Love you! Mona

Samy wrote at 02:40 PM on Jan 04, 2010

Miss you and Love you Cher....Samy

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I Am

I am a single mom to my miracle baby girl, Alyssa who is 13 years old. I'm a strong, independent, compassionate woman who came to the realization that life was passing me by and I wasn't going to to allow that to happen anymore! What's important to me is for my daughter to know that you can do whatever you set your heart and mind out to do...and to always believe in yourself regardless of what others may say. ~~~~ I'm a diamond in the rough... A butterfly emerging. I know and believe what I am truly capable of and the world will see this soon enough. The time has come for Bella...the time is now!





My Favorite Charity

Someone please tell me...how do you pick just one?!!

To me, Transformation Means

To go from a 312 lb self-loathing, bitter, lonely victim....to a 130 lb woman who has self-worth & -trust; to love, honor & respect myself; have the beautiful relationship with God that I've always desired; always come from a place of love; to be genuine & authentic at all times; to have goodness in all that I am and do; to have compassion and forgiveness; to be humble, always; seek to understand others and leave the past in the past. To live in the moment and be blessed for what I have.




My Goals

1. Rid myself of health issues, foggy-mindedness, forgetfulness, fatigue and medications to move toward getting off of SSI so I can be proud of what I do as a contributing member of society
2. My burning desire is to have self-worth....to love and trust myself by eliminating the need for outside sources to validate who I am or my worthiness
3. Inspire others: Family, Neighbors, Friends, Community, Strangers...but most importantly, my daughter
4. Have the most beautiful relationship with God and spiritually...experience peace within myself



My Intentions

1. Completely eliminate unhealthy foods like junk/processed foods, drive-thru's, quick fix foods, sugars, chocolate, bad carbs....and replace them with foods that nourish my body like natural veges, fruits, chicken, turkey and seafood
2. Lose 50+ Lbs
3. Train for my first triathlon
4. Work out 7 days a week: 3 days weight training, 4 days cardio (spin cycling, HIIT on treadmill and swimming)
5. Have a constant, daily schedule/routine
6. Intentional Prayer and mediation time daily
7. Live a sober life, daily
8. Consciously help, encourage, support and reach out to others
9. Eliminate negative sources in my life at all costs...




Who I'd Like to Inspire

If I could inspire just ONE person to make a difference in their life, that would be beyond my wildest dreams. But, honestly…I would love to inspire everyone that I come in contact with to transform their lives. If I could give to others what I’ve been given by Bill Phillips and this amazing community he has created…that would truly be THE reward!



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