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It's What's in Our Hearts that Matters Most
A story told to me by a Sufi Master I met while traveling in the summer of 2004 helps remind me of the importance of working to develop inner health through humble and authentic spiritual practice rather than just being externally righteous. It goes something like this:
Two aspirants were on the way. As they were walking through the hills and mountains they happened upon a bustling village and decided to stay for the night. They had spent months in retreat with other students, learning from their books and teachers.
As evening fell, the citizens of the village gathered to celebrate life with laughter, music, dancing, food and wine. One aspirant could not resist joining them – it had been so long since he had given in to any temptation that he could not resist. He asked his friend to join him, which the friend declined while warning him of the consequences if he did participate.
They both parted, the first one going to join the celebration, the other, with anger and resentment, marched off to a nearby temple to read a holy scripture. While he sat in the temple, thoughts of comparison and judgment of how lowly his fellow aspirant was dominated his mind. "I am the only righteous one – the only man of God in this entire village," he grumbled as he tightly gripped the holy book.
At the celebration, the first one enjoyed a hearty meal, and held a goblet of wine as he laughed and danced along with the town's people. In his mind and heart he felt good for his friend – that he had the discipline to make the right decision. He was grateful for his friend's example – an example which gave him hope. He prayed that someday he too would have such strength while he admitted to God he was not there yet.
Suddenly, a powerful earthquake struck – the ground shook violently and the village was devastated. Many physical lives were ended, including that of both aspirants.
The officers from heaven and hell began their work. The first one was taken by the officers of heaven, and he could see at distance his friend being ruthlessly driven by the officers from hell.
"There must be some mistake," he said, "According to what we were doing I deserve to be there and that friend of mine deserves to be graciously led by you to the gates of heaven."
"We are following the orders, and there is no mistake," the officer from heaven said.
Upon arriving in heaven, the aspirant who had been celebrating when the earthquake struck begged for an explanation for what had happened. "Your mind and heart were humbly filled with gratitude and love for your neighbor – your fellow aspirant. His was filled with resentment and anger while he dwelled in the darkness of judgment and despise for his fellow man.
“It is what is in your heart, not your hand, that opens the door to heaven or hell,” the voice gently spoke.
Of course, the Sufi Master's story is metaphorical, like the parables and allegories of most all sacred narratives throughout the ages. For example, in the tale of the two aspirants here, heaven and hell may represent ways of being or inner states of consciousness. Heaven being the level of inner experience we enjoy when our thoughts are positive and well-meaning; when our hearts are free of the emotions of anger and bitterness; when we are being authentically humble and grateful; when we are just pretty much feeling good, healthy and peaceful inside.
And hell, well that could refer to the painfully unhealthy place we create for ourselves, when we make the mistake of living selfishly, of judging others, holding anger and resentment for things that happened in the past or which are going on in the present; when we seek revenge in any way, shape or form over forgiveness and understanding.
Many teachers, most of whom are much wiser than myself, are of the belief that we don't have to wait for the end of physical life to live in heaven – a state of happiness, health, love, peace and even bliss. That 'Kingdom is within' the New Testament states over 100 times. As a student learning through life experience as well as the study of the modern science, ancient wisdom, comparative religion and mysticism, I feel pretty comfortable saying that I am of the belief that heaven could very well be both a potential present reality and a future/post-physical life manifestation.
Anyway, as the story above reminds me as I continue my transformation journey, that it is ultimately what's in our hearts which matters most. When we have love and appreciation for God/Life, our Neighbors/fellow man, and ourselves, that opens the door to inner paradise. If we don't have that inside, it doesn't matter what we hold on the outside, it will not be enough.
How we make the transformation to that level of inner health may vary somewhat for each of us. However, I deeply believe that we all have the potential to get there. In fact, it's beginning to look more and more like we're on the verge of an unprecedented kind of change that would allow us to awaken -- individually and collectively -- in the not so distant future. Perhaps that is the great transformation which will again separate time by an aeon -- into the periods 'before this' and 'after this.' We will soon see.
And hell, well that could refer to the painfully unhealthy place we create for ourselves, when we make the mistake of living selfishly, of judging others, holding anger and resentment for things that happened in the past or which are going on in the present; when we seek revenge in any way, shape or form over forgiveness and understanding.
Many teachers, most of whom are much wiser than myself, are of the belief that we don't have to wait for the end of physical life to live in heaven – a state of happiness, health, love, peace and even bliss. That 'Kingdom is within' the New Testament states over 100 times. As a student learning through life experience as well as the study of the modern science, ancient wisdom, comparative religion and mysticism, I feel pretty comfortable saying that I am of the belief that heaven could very well be both a potential present reality and a future/post-physical life manifestation.
Anyway, as the story above reminds me as I continue my transformation journey, that it is ultimately what's in our hearts which matters most. When we have love and appreciation for God/Life, our Neighbors/fellow man, and ourselves, that opens the door to inner paradise. If we don't have that inside, it doesn't matter what we hold on the outside, it will not be enough.
How we make the transformation to that level of inner health may vary somewhat for each of us. However, I deeply believe that we all have the potential to get there. In fact, it's beginning to look more and more like we're on the verge of an unprecedented kind of change that would allow us to awaken -- individually and collectively -- in the not so distant future. Perhaps that is the great transformation which will again separate time by an aeon -- into the periods 'before this' and 'after this.' We will soon see.
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A beautiful reminder of the importance of choosing in each moment how we want to shape our reality and our future.
Love this story, I see the truth in it. I am looking for a new spiritual place. I have been disappointed with religon in the past. It has not filled my needs but created more. This seems like such a spiritual place, a place I did not expect.
Thank you Bill, for this blog. This was a great reminder for me, on the power of love from the inside out. - “It is not how much we do, but how much love we put in the doing. It is not how much we give, but how much love we put in the giving” ((A favorite quote I carry by Mother Teresa)) -Terri
Thank you for this place Mr. Phillips. :) That was a wonderful blog. Time to catch up on some more! I really need to. Take care. :)
I live in heaven. I have had so many wonderful experiences in this life. So many dreams of mine have come true. I know it is the best to look outward with compasion on those that need us. I love the job I have. I work with students that look to me for guidance. It is up to me to help them be their best selves. I have never looked back after having transformed my body. I love it each time I am able to reach out and help others. Life is good, thanks again for another inspiring post. It is all in the attitude. kennie
Another great post that was food to my soul!!! I know the bible teach us that LOVE is the greatest gift and the greatest commandment!!!! I strive for unconditional love for everyone and challenge each of you...we can do it together....let's be the change!!! Renee'
Rumi is the best......and Hafez. I love the poetry...it is so beautiful in Farsi :-)
A situation occured just last night. A confrontation could have occured or maybe it did on their end. I was just acting joyfully at remarks made to me like water running over a duck's back. I laughed at them making fun at things I do and said we need to relax and enjoy ourselves. Just chill, life is too tense. Before I would have been confrontational and told them what I thought. I took the path of least resistance, so I thought.
This blog has been on my mind for many days now. I think about it every time i find myself judging someone or my own imperfections. So I am cleaning out my hearts house.
rugzar read this http://www.transformation.com/Kenwoodjens/blog/Uncategorized/The-Boy-The-Man-The-Transformation/44716
Do you have any suggestions for one that is feeling anger towards one? Your maybe selfish as the other was? I have fond myself here before and have been working on it by telling myself this is wrong. Do you a prescription for this, like steps to correct these inner negetive emotions? Nathan
It is a heart matter..what is on the outside is temporary....I have often judged others for judging me! Isn't that ironic?! God Bless you, Kat
Wow, a very thought provoking blog. Sometimes I just don't seem to "get it" when it comes to the inner stuff. I know I need help in that area...are there some books you could recommend? Thanks for this wonderful writing and for sharing the wisdom of the ages with us all.
Bill, once again another great blog form you--I appreciate you sharing this with all of us. The true feelings I have and do understand from your teachings is why wait for something bad to happen, when the good feelings and (living Heavenly) await us right now. I am transforming myself into someone who does now understand that the good can be enjoyed now, but the right decisions need to be made. Along with temptation--great rewards come to those who avoid them and keep realizing that we all CAN be living the right type of life NOW... Sometimes easier said then done, but we will all reap the rewards if the right decisions are made daily--and I am working through this every day---Thank you Bill so much for your insightful blogs and wisdom, they have been changing my life!!! I appreciate you so much--Thank you, Brian
Yes a great story and important message. My thoughts are not always the best for others. Wether this is something learned or something intrinsic to people with A.D.D. I will never really be sure. I do know from my studies that to keep focusing on one thought, or doing one action actually builds a strong neural highway in your brains that causes us to take that path / habit more easily than others. I also know to stop the habit narrows the Neural Pathway. So I am working on opposite actions to cause myself to turn away from those resentment thoughts of the past and anger thoughts that sometimes so easily spring to mind. I am working at changing. Right now I am working on the habit of 'eating that frog' and doing the tasks I least want to do that will lead to the most benefit for myself. Such as exercise in the mornings, reading positive stuff like yours and doing my studies on anatomy and ways to heal others physically instead of going straight to the email, facebook, TV or getting involved in low priority habits. Hopefully in such a way I can learn to be more focused on the positive than the negative. Though if you have suggestions for staying focused, I would love to hear them (as an aside note, you wrote me based on one of my posts and then asked me to suggest some stuff and asked me some questions about myeslf. I went to reply, but I got a message that you are not taking email. Might I suggest you let others know when you write to them that replying to you is only possible by posting a comment. It was confusing for me and took me awhile to figure it all out. Have a better than good day, Blair in Los Angeles
What an awesome story BIll! Theentire time I was reading this I was thinking of a close friend that is harbors a lot of anger and resentment for people that have wronged him. I am at work now, but can't wait to go and share this. I could totally relate to the human side of sometimes not feeling as if I am ready- but know that with this process aand even through the hills I will continue to learn and grow as long as I never give up or give in!
Thank you Bill for another great blog! This is so true, I too believe we all have the potential to get there...rise higher. We can all be better, do better each day. A humble thank you to you:) God Bless you in your continuous efforts to teach and share with all~Love, Lori
“It is what is in your heart, not your hand, that opens the door to heaven or hell." Thank you for that Bill. Thanks so much. Gaye
I've been reading a book 'Caught up in Heaven' about the experiences of a woman named Marietta who, in 1848, was unconscious to the world for 9 days as her family grieved at her bedside. During that time, she was escorted through heaven by the Angel of Peace. When she entered the City of Peace, she wrote of how no voices were needed in communication, and pure thoughts were everywhere, and her iniquities felt as though they were exposed - in heaven there were no concealments or fears - only the language of love. As I read this, I thought of your blog and what it really means in our transformation to release fears and concealments. We can be that much closer to the experience of heaven where it is only God's thoughts about us that matter!! Love you Bill! ~~ MaryPat
excellent parable, i love it, it is so good to have reminders like this, for me, it takes practice to find the heaven within, and i can always use a good parable
Yes, wise one, this is POWERFUL indeed. i can see it so clearly....at times....the self-created hell i live within. It surely shuts out the light i so desperately seek. Thanks, Bill. LPJ, Cat
Chicken or Egg? -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- As we travel through our lives, what is important to us escalates in our perspective. I have had dialogue with several of the beautiful people here, about what is more important: growing in relationships, or growing in health. The easy answer is both, balance. But what is our motivation? Where is our heart? Each sunrise we get the engine going and jump in the car (after two coffees as the primer). We may visit here, or we do our day at work, and visit here occasionally, or visit when our work is complete. Hopefully the day has intense exercise, nutrition and love. Here we share our pain, our hopes, and victories. But what is our motivation? What makes us better? I beliieve if we focus on one another, rather than ourselves, we have an opportunity to grow exponentially . I have done this with Jenny to be on the challange with her and have benefited way beyond my expectations. And I didn't even know I needed or could improve myself this much. My heart is larger, my focus on integrity greater. I work harder. When I used to weight lift and work out steadily many years ago, I focused on building muscles to show other people what a mini-hunk I could be. That was vain-glorious. I was full of pride. I thank the Lord that I don't need to do that now. But I do need to share, to not be a secluded island. What is more important to you...becoming an example of health first, or sharing your love and growing your relationships first? Remember, the easy answer is balance, or both.....but what truely motivates you? Pride or lifting your fellow man above yourself? Chas
Bill My physical change really seems to have been the easy part of my ongoing Transformation journey. That "inner level of health" you are discussing still takes my daily effort and continual self review as well and you continue to give me the tools I need to make changes that just keep enhancing my life. It just keeps getting better and better. Thanks for this!
Bill, you feel like a great friend who knows me, who knows what I need to hear and when I need to hear it. Thank you for your inspirations and thank you for being you. Your friend in Peace and Love, Elle Jaye
One other message that I took from this wonderful story is that of self -forgiveness. The first aspirant did not beat himself up for not following the way of the second. Instead he *aspired* (no coincidence here) to be more like his friend someday. This is how I feel about my own transformation. As I travel this path, I find that I am much kinder to myself when I don't do it perfectly. This is new to me - one of my worst habits was constantly berating myself for not doing "it" as good as someone else - and being angry resentful and ashamed about it. Now, I aspire to be like many of the people I have encountered on this website. This was a beautiful parable that let me see this progress I've made. I have up days when I'm feeling joyful, peaceful, compassionate, free of judgment. And then there are down days when I feel hopeless, mean, angry, resentful. Even though I don't enjoy the down days....who would?...., I forgive myself, pick myself up, remember those who inspire me, and start anew. I don't see it as having lost ground, which I used to before beginning my transformation, rather just a bump in the road. I get over it and continue on my path. It is no more significant than that. For this, I am more grateful than I can adequately express. Thank *you* Bill for being such a wonderful inspirator.
This is a great analogy! In reading this I see many areas of my transformation that still needs attention. I believe a lot of what holds me back is my lack of understanding. Until recently I've allowed my life's experiences, whether good or bad, to drive how I think, react, and feel. It can be hard sometimes to teach an old dog new tricks, but I'm working hard and making good progress. Thanks again Bill for yet another inspiring story! Greg :)
Thank you Bill. It's the 10th Day of Awe and as of sunset tomorrow, Yom Kippur is over. Bless you and may you be inscribed in the book of life. Thank you for reminding me that I must be my own light because that has already been given to me.
Beautiful message Bill...my goodness...your writings flow straight to my heart. I am so lifted by your passion and how you share it with us ALL through your eloguent writing. I am so thankful to feel happiness and pure love for my life and all who I am blessed to share it with!
Amazing! The idea is wonderful. I see that we need not be critical of one another nor resent decisions that were made. We need to make our own decisions in life and be happy with whatever it is we decide even if someone we care about takes the other road. We cant be angry at other people for making decisions we dont agree with. This concept can be very difficult to accept and include in our lives. Letting people make what we would consider a nistake and not having a little resentment that they did not do as we wished they would. Be happy with ourselves and dont judge others. The new testament tells us not to judge other people, love them and pray for them especially when they do you wrong. Dont take vengence on anyone for in doing so will take away the wrath of God and they will go unpunished.
Two words: Thank You! I usually don't read stories like this at al, or skim through them looking for "the point". Something in the way this was written compelled me to read every word. And I'm glad I did.
Hi Bill. It's the meaning behind your messages that continue to glue me to the communithy. The heart is the home and I really thank you. Ellen
Bill, Happy belated birthday. You are such an inspiration. A group of us from the Bay Area got together Saturday to talk and see how we were doing. I have been struggling with some issues. Your message was very powerful. It left me realizing that I can't allow myself to take the blame for things not going exactly as I think they should. I need to realize and accept the fact that everything isn't perfect. I understand that I need to be more forgiving to others an ask and receive help in a grateful and appreciative manner. I do get much out of your message. Thanks. Mary
Bill, Thank you so much for these beautiful words and for helping me stay “grounded.” Here I was on a very grumpy mood for a lot of unimportant reasons. The day is beautiful. I am sober. I have been recovering my health ever since I join Transformation. I have a beautiful family. Unfortunately, just because I have a lot of chores and To Dos on my list, I got caught up in this cycle of unnecessary bad temper. My Transformation journey has been incredible and I am looking forward to continue the path along with this wonderful community. But what stroke a cord were your words and reminder, that we do not have to wait to a future “After Life” state to be in heaven. Those simple but precious words “It's in your heart what matters,” gave me a quick wake up call to embrace the Heaven Within and be grateful for the beauty and miracles around me. THANK YOU! With love, gratitude and admiration -Yoly (Ikigai)
This story reminds me of a talk I had with my boys not too long ago.I watched them raise their voices with each other for a while.After calling them together,I explained about the sharp,forceful energy being released and effecting everyone else as well.Then I asked them,at what times they feel strong love for each other.One suggestion was:when one gets hurt physically or emotionally,another one was(this was funny):when my brother gives me something.But what about the rest of the time?When you consciously realize that you love and accept(two key words) your brother,you will try to understand him,instead of put him down.That is a lifelong lesson on "duality",that our aspirant in the story needed to learn.Instead of seeing the good and bad,he needed to love and ACCEPT his fellow aspirant(just the way he was).It is at this time of my life,that I am truly,consciously learning this princple and applying it in all parts of my life.Thank you,Bill for this awesome story.And how can you know already,what concerns me?You are inspired.
Hi Bill, It is Sunday morning here in Australia...as I am re-reading your story ...others are heading into Church... One of the ironies of this world is so many people go through the motions..say the words...attend the churches but the thing that does not change is thier heart. I know many people that are left unfulfilled...a little sad and not experiencing a genuinely rich spiritual life. And yet here we have a community in which people are making miraculous changes to thier life and constantly striving to improve the lives of others. This community is so special becuase it operates beyond the walls of any regilion, institution or Sundays.....this is a truely a place where what matters is the heart. Kindest wishes Your friend Stuart
Thank you for a great story and reminder to not hold anger in our hearts. :)
Anyway, as the story above reminds me as I continue my transformation journey, that it is ultimately what's in our hearts which matters most. When we have love and appreciation for God/Life, our Neighbors/fellow man, and ourselves, that opens the door to inner paradise. If we don't have that inside, it doesn't matter what we hold on the outside, it will not be enough. This is such a beautifu post Bill! The Bible does state the kingdom of GOD is within. IN HIM we LIVE and MOVE and have OUR BEING> I believe GOD is eternal life and its living in GOD and HIS LOVE that WE are transformed and we can TOUCH the lives of others and we are BEING transformed into the IMAGE of GODS SON JESUS....this is our mission. Mission is LOVE...LOVE of GOD...Love of neighbor and love of self. When we are nurturing those aspects in our lives we arelifted to a higher leve of walking in the Spirit of GOd. We are renewed in our minds and our body is energized. Think about the days we dont make good choices to eat well...it effects our thinking and our temples which we should not take for granted. This round has not been an easy one for me but i can truly say GOD has taught me many things about VALUE...WORTH and How much we should continue to nourish our physical beings as well as spiritual beings. If my mom had taken care of her physical body better she may still be here? I KNOW It was her time but HER LIFE and her death SPEAK TO ME. I am so gratefu for the place I have come too and I am looking forward to the DAYS AHEAD of transformation as well. I desire so much to release another forty pounds and I TOO will get there! I am the healthiest I have been in years and I am FORTY NOW. I love being FORTY and I am surrendering to the awesome possibilites for ME and the pages unwritten that will come. I hope and pray MY LIFE brings added FAITH....HOPE...and the greatest of all gifts is LOVE to you all. Bill I am truly grateful from the bottom of my heart for the LOVE you have spoken and brought into my life and my life being forever changed! YOUR love in my mothers passing and for bringing me this awesome community. I would be diving in to the sea of depression had it not been here! THANKYOU! I truly cannot wait to Meet you and thankYOU face to face! Words cannot express the gratitude and thankfulness I FEEL! I thankyou! I thankyou for Transformation! I thankYOU for giving me my life back... I thankyou for giving me HOPE! I thankyou for giving me community I thankyou for giving me SUNSHINE... I thankyou for giving me SOOOOOOOO MUCH! I feel so on my face humbled! Mrs. little Mattoon...'MY children thankyou...my hubby thanks and I pray GODS deepest blessings uponyou and your life! THANKYOU FOR BLESSING US ALL! I know round two ~the numbers are not huge~ but my heart IS FILLED with SO MUCH! THANKYOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Shari
Ok....wow....needed to cry a little and gather my thoughts....this story hit me very hard.....I am still now after all of the changes I have experienced still holding onto resentment for the past and I still carry it into my daily life.....this is something I will focus on when I start my next transformation Oct 1...Thank you Bill...This life of mine is a work in progress and with the gentle hand of God....I will make it through....~ Kim
Ah, Bill, you continue to be a blessing. Thanks for helping us transform our inner, as well as, our outer person. - Larry
A wonderful post Bill! As one aspirant to another, you (again) bring out some profound points. I love you and all that you do in contributing value to others. In so doing, you setting a fine example for the rest of us! Be well. Eric.
Bill, I continue to be utterly amazed at the wisdom that continually flows from your fingertips. I have felt a "shift" very recently and am excited to see what the near future will reveal to us. One (of many) things that I have learned VERY well over the course of the past many years (since my daughter died) was judgement......I have been judged in this life extrememly harshly...therefore, it has changed my perspective on the intentions of my fellow man. God KNOWS my heart........and for that, I am TRULY thankful. Respectfully, ~Sandy~
Bill, through the last few years, I have come to believe strongly that LOVE is the law of the universe. This story is SO truth-filled, as we each walk the journey of feeling like we fail ourselves and perhaps our God, yet somehow seeing again and again how He is forgiveness and peace, not judgement and anger. What wonder it brings to my heart once again to see how that law of LOVE is working in the universe through you, and through so many people. Religion, hard and cold, KILLS. But Spirituality, based on love, HEALS. Perfect story to illustrate that! Thanks so very much for being you. Johnnie Lorren (PS - Happy Birthday a few days late!)
This reminds me of your key "lead heart first, not head first". I completely agree that we can live a life like in heaven. The more I transform and live intentionally, the more I understand how important our health is to our spirit. Our energy is driven away to functioning in life when we are out of shape, depressed, and not focused on other people. That is definitely not the way Jesus lived. By being healthy, the holy spirit has a place to dwell and energy to feed off of. I am finally starting to understand your statement, "it come through me, not from me". You are an absolutely beautiful person. My life has changed and my career as a teacher has been given new heights. Beautiful post as always.
Decision making is so much more than a means to an end. It is about being at peace and having gratitude, love and happiness. Be true to yourself and all good things will follow.
That definately puts into words some of the recent choices I have made. I knew that although what I was doing was morally "right" it just wasn't because of the anger and resentment that I held for doing so. Therefore, the right choices in life are the ones which we hold no anger, resentment or regret for making. Finally, I see things more clearer now. Thanks for sharing Bill!!!!!
"I am not what happened to me, I am what I choose to become."
Thanks Bill that it so right on! If you are honest with yourself and let go of unforgiveness. Its like a breath of fresh air to be able to let go of the people that have hurt you and move forward you may not forget but what a blessing it is to forgive and have love and compassion for others.
All I can say is "Amen." and Thank you.
As I take this transformational journey, the biggest changes that I have experienced have been from the inside. All of my "other transformations" were missing the reality that inner transformation must occur before the outside responds.
Thanks Bill for taking the time to share such a relevant word. Love never fails....wendy
I could see how the particular 'heaven and hell' in this story are purely metaphorical, as both aspirants were already in their rightful place, even before their physical deaths happened. Sometimes it takes a major event, like an 'earthquake' to make us realize where our souls really are in this physical life.
Really good story. I think about it in terms of where I m at and where I need to be.Thank you for continuing to inspire! pedro
I am on the train heading to a Transformation Get Together in Indianapolis! What a great way to start my journey reading this! I will bring this type of love with me and will have tons of fun! I absolutely love the wisdom and the way you write! Marty
This is such a powerful parable. Self-righteousness and judgment are such traps. The ironic thing is if we want to be truly holy or lead others than we must exhibit compassion and a willingness to be of -not above- the people we would seek to lead and inspire. This one was divinely sent for me today as I feel that my leadership was filled with judgment. I need to be reminded of this lesson frequently. Holly
Excellent as always, I spent to much time doing the right thing, I have learned going to the party may really be the correct choice. Sometimes doing the right thing is wrong for the heart. ~ Todd
Thanks Bill.....this helps me see that despite the changes I have made in my life, I too need to be more open and loving others and the choices they make....I am only in control of my actions and reactions....and holding any kind of judgement towards others restrains my growth as a loving and selfless individual.....thanks ~ brett
Good one Bill, The lesson I need to remember is that I need to deverlop inner health through humble and authentic spiritual practice rather than just being externally righteous. Sometimes I just put on a show instead of being true to myself and others. What good is that? My creator knows my heart.
This was totally awesome Bill, it reminds me of what I wrote in my blog when I first joined and till this day I try my best to live by that golden rule. ~~~~~~ Love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self control. To these I commit my day. If I succeed, I will give thanks. If I fail, I will seek his grace. And then, when this day is done, I will lay my head on my pillow and rest. ~~~~ Thanks Bill!! God bless =o) Jerome
Thank you! What a nice way to start my day.
I loved this blog! So true. Thank you Bill! Love ~ Helene
Bill, as ever, perfectly stated and perfectly shared! Thanks for shring this with us - this is truly wonderful. I also LOVE LOVE LOVE that you call attention tot he fact that you are STILL making your own Transformation journey! I think that really reinforces that this is ongoing, always! Heartfelt thanks- Bill
This was a great story. It reminds me to keep love in my heart, no matter how things appear to me. If I stay "in love" I will stay in Heaven.
Bill, brother i tell ya, this was a beautiful blog! Wise words shared! We all have the potential to get there, like you said. So lets make this Revelation start with all of us collectively as Team Transformation! I love this! God Bless You today and always Bill! Your Friend Brad
Really good story. I think about it in terms of where I m at and where I need to be.
Bill-Thank you for this. When I came to Tcom I did not realize how cold and numb to people I had become from(my view at the time) a lifetime of being beat down by the world while trying to control it. I was in a viscous cycle that had closed the door on even wanting to engage or reach out to anyone to even say Hi, because caring and compassion had left me somehow while getting caught up in my self created misery. For me, I must credit the empowering goodness of Tcom as a whole, with you lifting it with powerful intentions, for opening the door to a new path that has guided me from a place and time of despair; from a lifetime of a mistaken strategy of trying to control everything making for misery and creating my own hell, to now being in a place and time filled with peace, hope, happiness, joy and fulfillment while believing that if I lost everything today, myself and my family would be OK.......because I am OK within. Now, I no longer coldly avoid people to avoid engagement, I open the door with warm intentions, caring, listening and yes...love from a heart filled with gratitude. What is that worth for me really cannot be put into words and now I continue very humbly on my journey while paying it forward:learning, giving and growing... Gratefully yours, Eric
Another fabulous blog as usual Bill, This one gave me chills. I really liked the part that said: “It is what is in your heart, not your hand....."
Bill, I opened your blog this morning (I remember specifically because it was 11:11am), and as I read this story I felt an amazing sense of inner peace and knowing. I see signs of the massive world change you speak of, and my heart tells me it has started and will definitely happen. It will be through the bottom-up exponential growth of people being the change. Thank you for your amazing leadership and for what you have set in motion here. What a wonderful time to be alive! Cheers, Paul.
PS This gave me chills: "Perhaps that is the great transformation which will again separate time by an aeon -- into the periods 'before this' and 'after this.' We will soon see." With all my heart, I hope we do see that.
I loved this story for a few reasons. For one, I took that Beliefnet test years ago to determine which religion best suited my beliefs. The results told me that, based on my choices, I should be a Sufi. I'd no idea what that was and forgot about it until now. So the first thing is the happy reminder of what I should study next. ;) The next reasons of course are the story itself and your message. I am like the celebrating monk, humble enough to know I have a *long* way to go but having so much fun that I'm not too worried about it right now. But, too many times, I'm like the monk in the temple thinking that I'm so much smarter than that guy over there who was pointing at that guy over there and judging him. (Oh wait...heh.) ^^ Thank you Bill. Great stuff, as usual.
Hi Bill, The concept of opening the door to inner paradise is one that i personally like very much. Also it seems we do know some of the ways to open that door...and can do so by the right actions.. and how we treat others.. Another great lesson.. Aloha, tom
So True...
Bill-So often your blogs provoke me to revisit my favorite writings of theologians I've studied in college and graduate school. And for that I thank you because reading those writings brings me joy and helps me reconnect to a vital part of myself. Tonight I re-read about Martin Luther's "two kingdoms" because the parable you relayed reminded me of his concept. Luther talked about creating a public sphere with heavenly qualities in the here and now. So when I merge your blog and his writing together, I arrive at the core principle that we talk about so often here in Transformationville, "Be the change you want to see in the world." I hope I can radiate happiness, health, love and peace into God's world. To do that, I need to feed the right wolf each day. Have a wonderful trip to Canada! Your message will be a blessing to those who attend the conference. ~Christine
This is one of those pieces that really touches me. I know the truth of it, I sense it, and yet I also am aware that I spend a lot of time like the poor fellow being sent off to hell. Thank you.
Beautiful! Just absolutely beautiful. So excited to be on the transformation journey to heaven within with you and all the wonderful souls here on t.com. Feeling so blessed and grateful to have so many amazing friends here who are all seeking for connection with a Higher Good, Heaven Bound for sure. Thank you so much Bill for providing this opportunity, for being a beautiful light in the world. You are such an awesome teacher and guide and your ability to share and express is just wonderful. Warmest regards Thia
Once again, Bill, a very powerful post. With incredible messages like this, it helps me be patient while awaiting the release of your new book! I do agree with you that we seem to be on the "verge of an unprecedented kind of change" and living from the HEART may be the most important transformation of all! I suspect we shall all know very soon. Thank you for once again sharing your wisdom with us. Love and gratitude, Jackie
Beautiful! Thank you so much !!!!
Thank you so much for sharing this Bill. I hit an injury and haven't been able to workout for 5 days, and my eating is starting to suffer and my old self seems to come out the worst when I hit these moments that are out of my control. This message helps remind me that its not our circumstances its what we do with them, and that stems from the deep seeded intention in our hearts. -Andrew
lovely lovely lovely! So true and a wonderful reminder to listen to the holy spirit inside and to lead with the heart. Thank you for sharing!
be careful not to judge, this is a strong lesson. keep an open loving heart~thanks Bill you a wisdom keeper Thanks for sharing~Peace~Sheridan
Love this, Bill! It reminds me that I'm actually grateful to have gained weight and lost my figure for the time being. Not because I'm happy to be unhealthy, but rather I feel blessed to experience first hand what it feels like to be ignored, discounted, left out of cliques and the "in" crowd and looked down upon by some people who have great bodies but are otherwise without warmth and kindness. My experience has been like wearing a fat suit...and I cringe to think I may have even been one of these people who laugh and poke fun at the obese. I happen to live in a community of very fit people mostly in their 30s, and my husband and I (in our 50s) often comment at how odd it is that very few of our neighbors say hello or respond to a wave. They may look good on the outside, but something is defnitely missing on the inside. I have to tell my kids that even though there are some unfriendly kids out there, they must continue to be kind to others. Always remember to treat others as you wish to be treated. Being here in this community is like coming home. I feel like I matter and I feel the love. Thank you for another outstanding blog. You rock, Bill!
Another magnificent display of the wisdom of the ages. Thanks for sharing this story with us -- I have never heard this one before and I truly appreciate you carrying the wisdom on to us!
Yes, Bill. Thanks! This is another great story. It appears that the "Great Awakening", the "New Earth", and so many other metaphors for the great change in our time, as predicted by all the ancients, is upon us. Perhaps we get to experience now that the only reality untimately is Love and Light. Everything else is only the illusion that Love (and Light, a synonym) (and perhaps just another way to say "God") is not there. The sooner each of us claims that for ourselves, the sooner the Great Transformation happens for the planet! And it is in the heart, just as the story tells us! It seems we are all teachers and helpers for each other. Thank you so much for stepping into your role with so much enthusiasm and grace!! And thank you for sharing such great wisdom. Pauline
Thanks Bill for your great insights and inspiration. It is true that what is in our heart is what matters most in our life and determines the true life that we live. God Bless, -ed
Yes, Bill. Thanks! This is another great story. It appears that the "Great Awakening", the "New Earth", and so many other metaphors for the great change in our time, as predicted by all the ancients, is upon us. Perhaps we get to experience now that the only reality untimately is Love and Light. Everything else is only the illusion that Love (and Light, a synonym) (and perhaps just another way to say "God") is not there. The sooner each of us claims that for ourselves, the sooner the Great Transformation happens for the planet! And it is in the heart, just as the story tells us! It seems we are all teachers and helpers for each other. Thank you so much for stepping into your role with so much enthusiasm and grace!! And thank you for sharing such great wisdom. Pauline
Hence is the downfall of the Modern Day Evangelical Church as well as most "religions". We as humans tend to think we have done something by being "good' , when in all reality it is the goodness of God that is the only thing that means anything in a pure spiritual life....Without the goodness of God and a humbleness from within our own hearts we are no more than a selfish, egotistical pile of rotting flesh. The good news is that we can lay all of that selfishness and self serving life down easily and live a life that is designed and ordained by God. That is one that thinks of our fellow man first, one of real goodness, real love and real compassion, knowing our rewards in this life are sent ahead to our afterlife with God. It is something we learn every day and no one grasps it on a full time basis. But the true measure of any man is not to compare yourself to another man, but being measured every day against the greatness, goodness and love of the Almighty God Himself....If that does not humble you.....well you just don't understand God at all...But when you do, you will find unlimited happiness in the most desperste situations and NOTHING will ever shake your faith...It's a great place to live, right in the heart of God...
Oh, my...how do you always know what I need to read? Thanks for making such great contributions to our collective healing and health, and helping us all stay focused on this sweet journey! Kimberly
Phew!!! After the day I had... wow. Thank you for this today, Bill. as I read the story I thought of a scripture or prayer I had heard once a long time ago that made me feel instant peace, so I googled it and found.... "Search me, O God, and know my heart; try me and know my anxious thoughts, and see if there is any hurtful way in me, and lead me in the everlasting way." I am glad this article led me to it because I can see it as something I can use on my most trying days to find calmness and peace. I guess I find great comfort in knowing that Divine knows my heart. It's what I have wanted for as long as I can remember, actually. I have pages in my journal from almost a decade ago now on which I wrote, "I want to know you, God." Can the seeking end, knowing my heart is known and I no longer have to "search?" I may make poor choices, and beat myself up for them again and again, but my heart is known, I am not alone. I just want to rest a bit now. No more judgement (even self-judgement). No more comparison. Just relax and enjoy life. Wow.. all that from one article! Thank you for sharing this with us.
"The task at hand is to release that which no longer serves us and retain the best from all that we have accomplished " Jealousy, envy, fear, resentment, anger, hate...all have no place in my heart or in my life and serve no purpose. I used to think that I was in great standing to go to Heaven because I was merely the victim of my circumstances, it wasn't until recently that I learned my emotions, my heart and my soul were blackened with hate and that would not "save" me in "the end". ~~~~~You once shared this with me and I am trying very hard to live my life with this belief held tightly in my every action.......“Grace is divine dispensation that waives the payment of karmic debts. It is earned by committing one’s life to truth, love and integrity, no matter what. And it is earned by service; not just by going through the motions, but rendered by the heart through true empathy and compassion.”~~~~Thank you for the opportunity to learn and grow, to discover the truth & compassion that life can be filled with....you have taught me priceless life lessons and I am grateful. Wonderful writing tonight Bill.....
Contemporary science is moving towards an insight that parents have never doubted; Love Heals. Everybody knows that when Mom or Dad kissed the scraped knee, it stopped hurting so much. When we were children, a loving embrace could make almost anything better. Love is so integral to the path of healing and transformation, it's impossible to separate it from any aspect of the process! Thanks again Bill...See you soon...Mark
Bill: Great piece and great work you are doing... I dont know if you remember me or not but I used to compete in "natural" bodybuilding in the 90's, I was on Haneys workout and bodyshaping. I have always been a fan of what you are doing and at this point in my life I am really interested in seeing how I can help with this cause.. it is awesome! Get in contact with me if you can, I know you must be real busy but Id love to chat. Thanks! David Orlando
It is a daily struggle and a great reminder. The Holy Spirit brought this exact issue to my attention just this weekend. It hit me hard! Thank you Bill for sharing and sharing and sharing. There is peace on the other side - even when we mess up!
mmmmm....That was sweet bliss reading that Bill. I too believe that a mass awakening is happening now to us individually and the collectivly. It is beautiful to see many that are coming to realization to their true nature and that the Kingdom of Heaven lies within our inner being. Like the second coming of Christ, The Buddha within. As a student myself, I thank you so much for your insightful blog. May your day be filled with Love, Peace, Joy, Happiness and Light. Namaste - Val
I really enjoyed this story. Not just because it is beautiful, but because I am so grateful to be able to feel the message. This transformatin journey has resulted in so many gifts. It truly is a gift that keeps giving as long as I stay on the path. One of the greatest gifts I have gained is the gift of being "open", not just willing, but "open". This same story could have come my way a couple of years ago and it would have meant nothing to me but words on a page and "a beautiful story". Yet it would have been an admired story from a distance and it would not have touched me..my heart..my soul. It would have been surface or deep for the time I read it, but it would have nothing to do with me. I used to be very disconnected I guess is the best way to describe it. I am grateful to you for the opportunity you provided for me through your work, to be where I am today able to embrace this beautiful story, feel it and the message and know that I believe the wisdom shared here to be true. Thank you Bill for this and so much more.
That was a great post Bill. It makes me realize how resentful, judgemental, and even angry I really am.... I just started here and on the BFL site and am in week 1 of my transformation. I am going to stay connected and see if I can learn how to change, as this is the only way I know and am surrounded by people just like me. Until now. Thanks again!!!!
I'm silenced as I read through to conclusion. There is a seriousness to your message that may be coming from my interpretation - there is no doubt that our will/choices influences the spiritual reality of good and evil in our lives. As well, there is no doubt that many a battle between good and evil has been won from a place of total immersion into the presence of our Lord - the Kingdom within. It is why I love worshipping in prayer and song as much as I do. Love YOUR heart, Bill! MaryPat
When I injured myself this summer and got a huge helping of humble pie, I got quiet and still and realized how much I was PUSHING myself physically to, in some way punish myself. I was so angry with myself. These weeks on the side lines have been overwhelming as I've been required to be still and realize truths about myself that I wanted to stay busy and suppress. This blog is right on point for me. Thank your for reaching through cyberspace and bringing healing to my heart that an ace bandage on my foot could never touch. I might not be able to run a marathon, but I can purge the junk and love myself to health. I might be hobbling on this part of the journey, but it's all about progress, not perfection, right? God bless the journey. My best to you. OXOX Elizabeth
Love this. It comes at such a good time for me. I have been working so hard at becoming more understanding and forgiving. To have patience and love for everyone, even those I disagree with or think I don't like. I feel peaceful when I love and forgive... I feel distant from all good things when I get angry or am quick to judge another. I am humbled by and grateful for your example of how God see's our hearts first. <3
That was a great post Bill. It makes me realize how resentful, judgemental, and even angry I really am.... I just started here and on the BFL site and am in week 1 of my transformation. I am going to stay connected and see if I can learn how to change, as this is the only way I know and am surrounded by people just like me. Until now. Thanks again!!!!
This is exactly what I am working on...I don't want to be the resentful one in the dark room. Not that I want to be the sinner either...great story. A year ago...I would have been doomed...now I would maybe have a chance at salvation, depending on if I got a minute or two to collect myself: )
Awesome!!! Wow...truly, it is what is in our hearts that matters most!!! It is a great reminder. Thank you for sharing this! :)
Fantastic message Bill! The heart IS what matters most! I really needed that message today!
Thank you for the story, Bill. You said, "we're on the verge of an unprecedented kind of change that would allow us to get there -- individually and collectively -- in the not so distant future." I have felt this coming for a while, as have so many others. I think it's so important during this time to stay on the right path and get together in a community such as this one to grow individually and as a group in love, humility, and health on every level because both the light and the dark want our attention. Thank you again for sharing, and Happy Belated Birthday!
This is a beautiful post Bill - thank you. My first thought while reading it was of Coach Stoney. I am in awe of the fact that he loves us all no matter what. I truly believe he does. It is through his example of unconditional love combined with the core culture that you have set forth in this community that will allow heaven's graces to touch each and everyone of us if we are open enough to receive the blessing. Once again, thank you to both you and Coach for all that you do. All my love and sincere gratitude - Susan - xoxoxoxox
Thanks, this really hit home. I've let go of a lot of my judgment junkie ways in the past eleven or so weeks. For me, it's like overeating. While you're doing it you think it feels so good; but so soon after it's over you just feel awful, indulgent and sick. It's like it's written all over your face. Jefferson said, "We seldom repent having eaten too little." Perhaps the same can be said for judgment. I can honestly said I've never felt the need to repent for being kind or welcoming to others.
Always the great wise story-teller, like the chief of a great nation! Thank you for continuing to inspire! Justin
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