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Good Morning, Friends!!!The week is starting off really good!  I spent a lot of time in our community last night reading about the miracles happening in the lives of so many beautiful people.  The inspiration and support available here is almost overwhelming, and it is such a gift.
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August 26, 2008 | Uncategorized

Wrapping Up Week 1

All things considered, my first week was truly amazing!!  I've done a lot of reading and learning, and I've made some super significant changes!!!*  Went to the market on Friday & used the "Suggested Foods" shopping list.  Love the Myoplex bars & the shakes.&nbs
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August 25, 2008 | Uncategorized

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socrkx wrote at 09:46 PM on Sep 22, 2008

Hi there! I was just stopping by some of my friends places to let you know I am thinking about you. Now that school has started I don't get to check things out as much as I used to. Hang in there my friend this transformation will change your life! If you need any support please stop by my place. Have a great Tuesday!

Bobbyg1018 wrote at 12:07 PM on Aug 22, 2008

You will quit smoking too! Put your heart into it and know that there is nothing that will benefit anybody from smoking! But when you quit, ( becuase you will) you will inspire others to quit! This day might not be to far away........its when you decide! ~Bobby Grimes

amnd2323 wrote at 10:25 AM on Aug 22, 2008

Hi HockeyMom! You can do this!!! I also have a 5 and 15 year old (and a 13 yr old too). It's so cool when they're proud of you and it feels so good to show them a healthy example. I used to HATE figuring out what to cook every night....same old stuff every week. I got the EFL book from the library and we've been trying out lots of the recipes. My kids told me they want to stay on this "diet" forever because they're loving the food I'm cooking. Like you said.....progress everyday!

HockeyMom02 wrote at 10:38 AM on Aug 22, 2008

Hi!! Thanks for introducing me to the EFL book -- I've got to go get it this weekend. I am so excited about grocery shopping this weekend -- boy, does that sound goofy to me! Can you believe I would actually be ashamed when I would go to the store because I was afraid others would judge the JUNK I had in my cart!! I don't want to be that person anymore. We decided last night that PopTarts & spaghetti-o's are officially banned from our household forever!!! I really love to cook, but I've been so withdrawn from my family for the past 5 months that the microwave and I had a better relationship together than I did with my kids! I am so thrilled to know that I have the power to change that! :-)

lahart wrote at 01:25 PM on Aug 20, 2008

Hey, HockeyMom, Welcome aboard. My son played ice hockey and I fondly remember playing in tournaments in Omaha against your Mavericks. I think you'll find all the support and help that you could ask for on this site. Lots of wonderful people and I'm sure some that have walked the same path that you're on. Remember, we're all pulling for you. There are folks on this site that are certified trainers and nutritionists who are more than willing to help or supplement what you'll find in the Body for Life & Eating for life books (in fact, I think there is place on here somewhere where you can download portions of those books). The important thing is we care. If I can ever help, please let me know, I'm transforming, too. Until then, you'll be in my prayers. God's Peace to you. -Larry

Probwhite wrote at 11:57 AM on Aug 20, 2008

Welcome aboard Hockeymom! Bobby's right. You've come to the right place. There is all the support, advice and info you'll ever need on here. You should feel great that you've taken SIGNIFICANT steps towards changing your life. Congratulations. If you stick to the plan, day by day you will see changes that will transorm the physical, mental & spiritual. Hit us up if you need a shoulder, advice..whatever. You will succeed. Your son Connor sounds like an amazing inspiration!!!!! You'll find many people on here with many very inspiring stories. I suggest taking a look around at some of the profiles. There are so many here that are ready, willing & able to help. Take full advantage of it!

Bobbyg1018 wrote at 10:40 AM on Aug 20, 2008

HJey you have defenently come to the right place......seems like you are going through some testing.......you will get through it......no matter how bad thing get they will pass.....PLEASE email me anytime you need to talk.....again welcome to the family! ~Bobby Grimes

HockeyMom02 wrote at 08:49 PM on Aug 21, 2008

Hi Bobby! Your words of encouragement are so much appreciated!! I've done a lot of reading since yesterday on the website & even though I am too late to participate in the challenge, I am doing the action. The photo was really hard, but I actually did wake up today with a new sense of hope!! :-) Looking forward to sharing progress with each other!!

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I Am

I am 41 years old, but feel like I am 91. I have a 15 year old son, Dalton and a 5 year old son, Conner. They are really great kids and I love them so much that I can't even put it into words. As I am completing this short bio, I am crying uncontrollably because I am so disgusted with myself. I was laid off from a great career in March (along with 1/3 of the staff) and have been at home, depressed, tired, and feeling sorry for myself for the past 5 months. I drink caffeine from the time I wake up in the morning and in the middle of the night because I don't sleep more than 3 hours at a time anymore. I have low back problems which I attribute to my obesity and I can't even sleep in my bed anymore because I am in so much pain all over that I am afraid I will keep my husband up all night. I feel mentally, physically, and spiritually bankrupt! I try to put up a good front for my kids and my husband because I can't stand having them see me this way. They are my whole world and the only reason I have had in a long time to do anything. I don't have friends I stay in touch with because I am too ashamed of how I look. I can't stand going out in public at all, but I do when I have to. I want to watch my kids finish school and have families of their own some day. I don't want a death certificate which will read something to the effect, (heart problem, stroke, blood clot, etc...) "due to obesity". I want to have some sense of pride & dignity back! I want to feel good when I get up in the morning & have the motivation to truly live each day to the fullest. I know it is very "cliche-ish", but I am truly sick and tired of being sick & tired! I don't want to be ashamed anymore to go to school functions, hockey games, or out with my husband. Most important to me though is that I really want to set a good example for my kids -- I haven't done that in a long time. I know I am so very blessed to have my family and it's time I show them how much I appreciate them by taking actions which will indicate I want to be the best mom & wife I can be by changing where I am now & learning to take care of myself.

My Favorite Charity

Make-A-Wish Foundation

To me, Transformation Means

a long-term, thorough process of change. A transformation for me will not be strictly limited to weight loss/managment...it must include mental, physical, emotional & spiritual change.

My Goals

I want total transformation! Mental - Learn, learn, learn. I want to become empowered with knowledge & change the way I think. Emotional - I want to replace fear with courage & determination; and, self-loathing with pride in my progress. I want to stop crying everyday. Physical - I want to feel better, live a healthy lifestyle and look great! Spiritual - I want to help others.

My Intentions

I would love to experience the complete life-altering transformation I've seen and read about from so many other members in our community. I fully intend to be accountable! I am going to be a positive example to my kids and my community. I am going to stop feeling sorry for myself by making progress every day. I am going to be true to myself, my family & my friends by strengthening my body, mind, and soul! I have to give credit where credit is most due...I am not here because I've done a great job of managing my own life so far -- God receives the glory for introducing me to a new way of life.

Who I'd Like to Inspire

Every living, breathing soul I can reach who has ever felt incomplete, hopeless, and lost like I do. My youngest son, Conner was born with a serious medical condition. He spent several weeks in NICU when he was born & has endured 8 surgeries so far. By all medical definition, he should be considered a "disabled" child. By the grace of God, perserverence, education about his condition, the blessing of an amazing pediatric surgeon and lots of love and encouragement, Conner started kindergarten in a public school last week and he's doing great!!! He is a miracle. He's 5 years old & he is my inspiration!!!! I want to return the favor and be alive (in more than just the breathing sense of existence) to participate in his life.

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