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The power of this process
The power of this process
As many of you know since October of last year I have been fighting the battle of cancer with my “mom” who at the time was given 2 years to live. We were told that her cancer was everywhere, not curable, only “manageable”.
I began this process with a very open mind, and positive heart believing that it was my purpose to create a new path of feelings, beliefs, and thoughts for her. I know her and I know the pain her life has held, the fear, anger and resentment she was harboring and I know the power of this transformation process to heal lives on a very real level. I wanted her to move on from this life to the next with peace in her heart.
So each Friday I struck up conversation, leading her to share her thoughts and feelings with me surrounding her entire life’s journey. Its been a wonderful cleansing experience. I could SEE her face change, loosen and not be so hardened from anger. I could see light come back to her eyes. I witnessed the tears of release and the sharing of all that she held so tightly inside of her. I shared with her all I have learned here, from Bill, from these lessons and assignments without ever really letting her in on what I was doing =) I’m sneaky like that…..had my intentions been made she probably would not have been so open and willing. She’s stubborn like that.
There are no coincidences in this life. As we work together to bring peace and healing into her life each week something unexpected happened. Something that will bring the most powerful closure to her life. A sister, who disappeared without a trace more than 60 years ago has come back into her life, also seeking closure, forgiveness and peace. This caused great pain in her family, everyone imagined the worst. Her abduction, rape and murder, buried somewhere never to be found again……all the pain her disappearance caused the family is unimaginable. And here she is…..during the final chapter of both their lives. Amazing! My heart over flows for both of them to have this chance to be set free.
Last week while I was gone on vacation my mom had tests done to check the status of her heart and her cancer. Miraculously the cancer in her neck is GONE. They lymph nodes have shrunk…and everything looks great! Her doctor says its absolutely a miracle! That we now have at least 4 years….not one more like originally thought.
We greatly underestimate the power forgiveness has in our lives. We don’t realize the extent of the damage being caused by stress, anger, fear and resentment. Letting that all go, slowly through the months is HEALING her body, mind and spirit.
Please follow this through. Do all 18 steps and then do them again, and again and make them a part of your life, your belief system, WHO you truly ARE and heal your body, your mind and your spirit. This is more powerful than any of us realize….she is living proof!!!
The effect of our ripple is truly infinite!!!
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Wow Mellie, this is such a beautiful experience you are sharing. We don't realize the effects of pain, fear, resentment on our bodies and lives. And releasing those feelings is sooooooo powerful. You and Catherine are such a blessing and inspiration, Rhonda
Thank you so much for these inspiring words. Such strength, raw emotion and encouragement! I began my journey a year ago and "fell off the wagon" only to find that I need to stay with it to truly get the results I desire. Thank you so much for these inspiring words.. Today, is the first day of the rest of my life!
Amen Mellie. Thanks for your story..., i'm choking on my tears at your true and beautiful words. I would like to think that my father-in-law could have found this type of healing in his recent, brief cancer battle, but we can't force anyone to learn these lessons. We can only hope and guide and if they're not willing, we can be grateful that we've done our best with the tools we've been given and know at least that we are changing our own lives. I have peace knowing this. I still have far to go and yet to do my first 18 week challenge and I will not let you down. I will make this my new belief system and who I am. I appreciate you so much Mellie. Love and smiles, Nikki xx
Thank you for sharing. Like you, I believe there are no coincidences. Just this morning I was praying and what do you know - clicked on your blog, read it and am now determined to work even harder on the forgiveness in my life. Good luck to you and your mom.
This is SO TRUE. This is a beautiful blog Mellie. What wonderful news for your mom and all who love her. You are a real " transformation coach". i remember the very first day i signed up I called you. You are the reason I started. I trusted what you had to say. I carry Bill's book with me all the time. I read it over and over and over. I have had some results and I know even more results are in store.. Thank you for carrying out the message! That pic on my profile is from when Carin came to visit me just recently...we were giggling our heads off after a few glasses of wine and "posing". Thanks for the sweet compliment. Love, Andee
Many people don't understand this power to heal, but it is VERY, VERY real. Louise Hay (who owns the publishing company that published Bill's book) also healed herself of Cancer without any chemo or surgery. She used a combination of good nutrition, therapy to release resentments, and daily affirmations to cure the disease...for I think more than 30 years now. I believe EVERYONE....and I mean EVERYONE...can benefit from Bill's book and these assignments. Enjoy the additional time. Hugs, Lisa
Wow, that is a wonderful story, thank you for sharing that.
This is fantastic news, Mellie! I must have missed it in 'The Crew'. Anyway, keep doing what works, for sure!! :)
Thanks you for sharing this story! I'm happy for your mom! I just finished this chapter and now have some major work ahead of me! I'm so happy I read your blog. It made me realize how important this step really is! Take care, Rachel P.S Give your mom a big hug from me!
Hi Mellie, was stopping by to just say hi, read your blog just now..and I am in complete aww. I am so happy for her and for you, because I know how much she means to you, and what you have endured together. Please tell Catherine that we are all sending her positive energy/prayers that she continues to heal. (Also everytime you write you have such keen insight and powerful lessons behind your words! You are a true teacher :) With Love and Happiness for you both, Rachelle
I am happy for you and your mom, that is great news. Mike
*Miraculously the cancer in her neck is GONE. They lymph nodes have shrunk…and everything looks great! Her doctor says its absolutely a miracle!* ~~~~ I believe it - miracles happen every day. What a gift/blessing/treasure to witness first hand. Keep doing what you're doing, it works. Take care. ~S~
Mellie, I am so very happy for your mom and also you. Cherish this miracle! Sending you lots of love and prayers, Sue
Wow that's pretty exciting. It must be amazing to see real healing taking place. I've also met someone that has transformed from having a brain tumor with 6 months left to live. He was a work-a-holic and what he did was stop working so much, spent time with family, opened up his own practice with no advertising, 'worked' 4 hours a day which no one showed up and went home. His tumor disappeared without chemo and other invasive practices. It's the strangest thing. I would suggest watching the video "The Living Matrix" if you haven't, pretty powerful stuff on the new discoveries they are making in the area of healing.
I came by your page to say a long overdue hello and here I was drawn to your blog. WOW! WOW! WOW! So wonderful about your mum's latest report, what you have been sharing with her and what you have been drawing from her. I am about to start my day's work here and I now have a sense of elation after reading this. I have been dreading some of the tasks at hand but you have lifted my spirits by sharing the sense of joy you express here. Thank you! ~ Love Son xo
I am overcome by emotion! What a powerful, beautiful example you've shared with us! I will be thinking about this all day today - and will also carry your mom, your family, and you in my prayers as you continue this journey together...I had to chuckle too - I have to be "sneaky like that" with some of my family members because they are "stubborn like that" too! Have a wonderful day Mellie! You are a light and inspiration to me once again!! Kaci :)
A beautiful and touching story, forgiveness is a beautiful thing, and we have such a hard time doing it. I am so happy for you and your mom. Enjoy and cherish each day you have together. We all need to do this. Hugs and Blessings to you both. Michelle
Just amazing Mellie! Truly forgivenss, releasing and letting go of that inner pain and hurt can create amazing miracles in our lives and others. Its great Catherine is experiencing miracles and beautiful you are by her side to assist (sneaking or not) in her healing. Anything is possible Mellie, truly it is. I went through a similar process when I was much younger with my mom and I did not have the tools you have now to do what you are doing, my mom did die from the cancer that was eating at her - in the 4 months from the time we found out to the end. She did heal alot though and left in peace. Hugs Mellie, now I am shedding tears of joy for Catherine and for you. Love you. Thia
That is a miracle and I'm soooo happy for Catherine!! YAY... Mellie you are so right about the healing process bc I'm learning that in 12 step program and I'm seeing little miracles in my life bc I'm letting go of bad stuff I don't need in my life!!! Everything you said is nothing but the truth!! YAY again for YOU and your MOM!! Xoxox jo