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I GET TO
Today our community is grieving for Denise and the Taylor family with the loss of Jonnae just yesterday morning. The outpouring of compassion, kindness and love from all of you here in the community has been incredible to witness.
I’m just really proud, not only of Denise, but all of you as well. I’m really beginning to see your true character… the practice of the Universal Law of Reciprocation here is very authentic and from the heart. And that’s important. Giving others support, care, and encouragement is not about “what’s in it for me.” It’s just something that becomes second nature and an expression of who you are as you begin to mature and grow along spiritual lines.
Along with the grieving, for me, is also a joyful feeling -- a reverence and appreciation for how much Jonnae touched my life. I know I’m not the only one here who just fell in love with this beautiful soul and spent many hours over the past month praying for and thinking about her. And you know, today she is on my mind as much as ever; in particular, the way she transformed adversity into an opportunity to grow spiritually, and help others do the same.
Everyone who met Jonnae was uplifted by her courage, positive attitude, and her way of seeing things. Even on the most challenging days, Jonnae was helping others feel better about themselves. She always seemed to lift other people’s spirits with her beautiful smile, her laugh, and her kind words. Make no mistake, Jonnae left this world with no regrets, no resentments, no enemies, and surrounded by love. Her spirit is alive and well and her legacy is just beginning.
My favorite thing that Jonnae taught me is summed up in three words: “I GET TO.” In fact, I really believe that I GET TO has the potential to become a powerful mindset mantra for Transformers; akin to what “Just Do It” is for athletes.
What ‘I GET TO’ Means to Me…
As I see it, when we approach everyday life with the mindset I GET TO, it really means we’re shifting away from an attitude of obligation and into one of appreciation. And that’s quite a change -- it’s a change that can literally transform your entire life. Here’s one reason why…
The science of Quantum Physics (Quantum Physics is actually the term modern scientists use to describe the study of universal laws of spirit -- the realm at which everything is interconnected) shows that we actually change the things we see by changing the way we see them. It’s called the “observer effect.” What it amounts to, literally, is if I look at life as beautiful, fun and filled with opportunities to make a difference, that’s the way life is going to show up for me. Now, of course, if we look at the world with negativity, we find disappointment, frustration, and unhappiness. It’s sad but true. And it’s not just that we partition off the good stuff in order to see the bad; it’s actually because negative intention produces what I call “anti-results,” and for that person, the world actually is an angry, lonely, disconnected place.
So, instead of thinking, “I have to exercise today… I have to eat healthy… I have to practice the Universal Law of Reciprocation” and so on, flip that switch to the positive perspective and say, “I GET TO exercise, I GET TO eat healthy, and I GET TO treat others with CARE (Compassion, Appreciation, Respect, Encouragement).” If we approach life this way, each and every day, the changes you see -- the changes you help create -- will astonish you. I promise.
I mean really, consider Jonnae… one reason her example is so inspiring is that even with all the adversity, painful procedures, the debilitating side effects of chemotherapy, she still had the inner strength to say, “I GET TO live another day.”
Now I ask you: What could possibly be going on in your life today, that would prevent you from moving forward with that much appreciation? Is anything stopping you from saying I GET TO? I’ve heard people come up with a dozen excuses why they can’t (I can’t because everybody’s against me; I can’t because I’ve got a back injury; I can’t because my life is so busy that I don’t have time, etc. etc.). It’s important to know the difference between excuses like those, and reasons why you can. Here’s a reason… how about to honor Jonnae? That sure seems like a good reason to me! By doing so -- by saying, over and over again, I GET TO, we will not only keep Jonnae’s spirit alive and going strong, we will also benefit individually and collectively -- we will become more empowered, more caring, more humble and yet more able to make a difference in the lives of others.
So, are you in? If so, let me know by posting a comment below.
With appreciation,
Bill
P.S. Denise received some help from a compassionate woman named Melodi who arranged for Jonnae’s saying, I GET TO, to be embossed on passion purple wristbands. And how you get one is to simply make a small donation, which supports the Taylor Family with the extensive medical costs incurred during the three years of Jonnae's treatment. Denise has suggested that in lieu of sending her and her family flowers and gifts to express your condolences, that you consider making a donation for the wristband instead. I’ve already done so and if you’d like to as well, click here.
P.P.S. By request, we’ve just posted a five-minute video of special moments from Jonnae’s Celebration of Life party which was held last weekend. Click here to watch the video.
I have ordered my bracelet today. I am proud to wear it and to remember where it came from and why....Joe
Oh my, so moving I am happy that “I Get TO” and I will make a commitment to stop saying I have to and start saying I Get To. Thank you for this site and God Bless Jonnae and Denise and their family. Always in Prayer Jim
Wow. those simple words seem to change everything. I get to be a part of this big transformation.
I put her picture and saying as the desktop background on my laptop! We all need to be thankful for the opportunities that God has given us. I have seven kids (two of whom have special needs)...some days I find myself in a pity party... I have to... I am making this my new motto. I GET TO! Laura
Last week I saw the video when Bill visited Jonnae and her family, but it wasn't until today that I realized that she had already passed away. I just ordered two bracelets (for my husband and I), and I will wear mine next to my Livestrong bracelet that I have worn since the month of its inception. Eight members of my family (save my sister and I) have had cancer. All are survivors except my mom who just recently died from non-smoker's lung cancer. I miss hearing her say my name and holding my hand. My heart aches for Jonnae's family, as I cannot fathom the grief they must be enduring. But I thank them for allowing us the opportunity to know their daughter and for sharing her strength. Jesus was always by her side.
I don't know what else to say axcept THANK YOU. My daughter who is 2 1/2 has cancer also. Jonnae Taylor and Denise have been such an inspiration to us as a family. We proudly wear our "I GET TO" bracelets everyday including my daughter Jaina. Jonnae will forever be a part of our family too! With love an light, Kateri
What an inspiration! I will definately be thinking of this story for quite some time!
I just ordered the bracelet, I will think of Jonnae every time I look at it. She is truly an inspiration to us all. What a beautiful soul. Thank you so much for sharing her story with me.
Wow Just found this transformation site this morning, and I have been crying non stop. The videos of Jonnae and the encouragement she and her mom Denise give. They have made such a diffrence in this world, and we all can. I have felt like lately I have had one bad thing after another, and I am greatful. I am going to go on, and become the full potential for what God has intended. I think of the Ray Boltz song"Thank you for giviing to the Lord" Thank you, Jonnae, Denise, Bill. I am excited to accept this Challenge to transform, it is not to late....Kimberly
***Jonnae*** Wise beyond her years!! "I GET TO" Such a small thing with big meaning.
$5 to help her family... Of course I'm in. I just ordered the bracelet, and I'm going to keep it in my home gym, wearing it with every weight-training workout.
Living in Indiana, this story literally hits a little closer to home. "From a life of obligation to one of appreciation..." A lesson for us all in this story. This story has really made me think, and I'm just now reading about the bracelet, etc. God bless her and her family.
Thanks Bill for sharing your insight. "I Get to" is so powerful
I get to read this blog today and I get to RUN tonight.. In the heat, in the sun... but I GET TO traci
Thank you Bill for sharing such a beautiful story. Jonnae continues giving to us and I am inspired by "I GET TO" ... The bracelet will be a constant reminder to live my life in a positive way no matter what the day brings. Jonnae is "A Gift" we were lucky to receive and her spirit is here to stay.
Thanks Bill - many trackers had been ordering these, and now hopefully a larger portion of the world will GET TO change their life and support such an inspirational family.
After I read this post, I had to go back and find out the story. What a wonderful little girl and great mother. I don't know how in the world she found the inner strength. This to me would be one of the hardest things a mother would have to experience. Thoughts and prayers are with you. But, these three words have been with me ever since. "I Get To..." What a great legacy. Jonnae will touch more lives then she will ever know, except that I believe she is looking down from heaven right now and knows the impact of her life. My she continue to bless everyone that reads her story. I am proud of Jonnae and Denise and pray God put his arms around the Taylor family.
I ordered the bracelet yesterday. I am looking forward to having that piece of to remind how short life is and to be happy with what I do have. I know that I get wrapped up in the "have to's" that comes from a busy life. I don't post on Tracker and this is my first thing I have writtten on this site but it really means so much to be part of something so big and life changing. Thank you very much.
Life to short! Enjoy days u have here
"I Get To" say thank you to Melodi for creating another beautiful way we can show our support for the Taylor family and also "I Get To" say thank you to Bill for creating this post on your website and allowing more people to be be a part of this amazing. compassionate community. Jonnae will remain in our hearts x x
I am in. Thank you
I'm in!
Thanks for the great post Bill. It's very evident that your heart was knitted with Jonnae and her family. What a beautiful young lady she was. My mom went through breast cancer a couple years ago and is now cancer free, thank the Lord. I'm going to order a bracelet for her and for myself...on second thought, maybe I'll order enough for the whole family! What a great message that is...I GET TO! My friend Mark Cahill says the same thing in his book titled "One Thing You Can't Do In Heaven." That one thing is sharing our faith in Christ with those who are not yet believers. What a privilege it is to share the hope I have in Christ and tell folks there is so much more than what we see around us.
Bill, What a gift to be associated with a community such as this as well as the sister community, BFL! I have placed my order and will wear my bracelet to remind me of this universal spiritual law that Jonnae so inspired in all of us! Yours in Transformation & BFL, Beth
TODAY I GET TO:Remember a special fifteen year old girl by GETTING MYSELF IN SHAPE!!!!!!!!!! TODAY I GET TO:Remember my father who died of the same disease as Jonnae,leukemia,when I was ten years old. TODAY I GET TO:CARE(Compassion,Appreciation,Respect,Encouragement)>Have these for others and for myself. TODAY I GET TO:Share with my Transformation and Tracker family. TODAY I GET TO:LIVE!!!!!!!!!! Rusty
Im sorry to hear of the passing of Joannae But her saying I Get To has a lot of meaning behind it to me I make excuses alot for things and instead Im goind to start using her saying I Get To. Im still here and I get to do things still and I Get To Still change my life and lifestyle. Im going to use my time to be postive and think how I can make things better and don't say I can not do but I Get To....Michelle
Very positive Karma! If you wnat to know your past life, look into your present condition; if you want to know your future life, look at your present actions. Thanks, Kathy
There is a saying I have on my board that states "There are some things in life that are important and a whole lot of things that aren't". This clearly illustrates that point to tears. I think that practicing graditude and appreciation for life through this braclet honors Jonnae and her family daily. May God walk with and bless you all.
this community is changing the lives of everyone in it thanks to people like denise, jonnae, and the rest of their family. i am truly thankful that EVERY day I GET TO sign on to this site and see how great this world really can be. and right on with the quantum physics Bill... says a lot about your journey and your success. love.
After reading posts by you and Denise, I am so deeply moved and overwhelmed that I often lack the appropriate words to express how/what I am feeling. . .today is no different; but, I will say "thank you," and that I can't wait to wear my bracelet with honor.
I have been stopping myself anytime I say I have to....and change it to a much more positive statement....I GET TO!! Jonnae has had such an impact on all of us. Thank you Denise for sharing your loving family with us. From the first day I heard of BFL in 1999 and read the book, I knew that Bill would have a MAJOR impact on my life. I never expected a sweet 15 year old girl to flip my life right side up in such a positive way. Jonnae will live on forever.
Today "I GET TO" approach all of life with "CARE." And guess what? If I make a few mistakes. "I GET TO" try again tomorrow. Count me "In." Life is Good, MOM
3 of the smallest words in the English language, but words which seem to be having the biggest impact for a lot of people (myself included!) Yesterday I GOT TO go for a medical exam which I'd been putting off for a long time. Thank you Jonnae. Sooze
Thank you Bill....for putting into words what we all need to do...and doing so in such a way that we all WANT to do. You can see by the responses, that we are all in! I am no exception. The words "Get To..." can and WILL apply to everything do from here on out.....(just saying "I get to take out the garbage" sounds so much more fun!) Thanks again! Deb ÜÜÜ
The last few days I've been thinking over and over of 3 little words that are so big. It is my new mantra...and when I read your post that I GET TO has the potential of becoming a powerful mindset mantra for transformers...I thought PERFECT.
I'm in. Ordered bracelets for the whole family. Denise, her family, and especially Jonnae have made a huge impact on my life. Thankyou, Bill for this blog. Today “I GET TO exercise, I GET TO eat healthy, and I GET TO treat others with CARE (Compassion, Appreciation, Respect, Encouragement).” May God bring comfort and peace to the Taylor Family.
Yes, Yes, Yes, I am so in! I GET TO particicate and keep Jonnae alive. I can't wait to receive my bracelet and have that constant reminder with me of how fortunate I am. I GET TO Praise GOD for everyday he is giving me. Thank you Bill! ~Isabel
Just beautiful, Bill. Wow...
You know as I sit here with tears swelling up in my eyes I know that this wonderful woman is going to be a huge inspiration to so many... My husband is stuggling with many diseases ranging from Ulcerative Colitis to Fybromalgia and many other things. About 5 years ago I lost 120 lbs and then he became sick. I have gained back most all of my weight and struggled since then to get it back off to no avail. I have had that mentality of do I have to, but upon reading this blog, my attitude will be I GET TO!!!!! What a blessing... Thank you Jonnae! You live on even though your not here! May God bless this family and keep them safe and wrapped in God's love! I pray peace during such a difficult time! Blessings, Tracy Brown
I AM IN! I get to do a lot of things especially, live life to the fullest, praise God every morning and give thanks for the day at the end. Jonnae your spirit will never die I will wear my bracelet with honor and think about you with every rep and every stride in my workouts. Thank you for sharing your life with me and my family. Bill CARE is a wonderful way to start a day! If we had more CARE (Compassion, Appreciation, Respect, Encouragement) in our world today just think what a great place this would be. I Get to CARE today! Julia
I'm in! I changed the title of my To Do list section of my blog today to "I GET TO"!!!!! It will be a daily reminder when I'm making out my list of things that I should be grateful that I GET TO do all of these things because so many people aren't so lucky. I am also ordering bracelets for everyone in my family and I don't want to ever hear "I can't" or "I have to" in my house again!
Bill, Your team did a great job of putting the video together. It really means a lot to me to have this remembrance of that perfect day. Peace and Love, Jim
May we all realize we have in us the power to touch people as Jonnae, Denise and their family have...we live a life of transformation and remember what is most important in this life. WE may not have the chance to reached thousands, as she did, but there are people all around us who need to see a beacon of light in this sometimes harsh world. People, not things, matter most. This beautiful girl will live on in my heart always. Thanks, Denise, for opening your life to us and thank you, Bill, for being a wonderful support to the Taylors and for making the videos available for the rest of us. Wherever we are, whatever we do, may we all cause a transforming ripple effect in the world around us.
Yes, I am in! I did order wristbands and will wear mine along with the frog braclet Jonnae made for me. There are so many things I get to do and even more I get to be thankful for! Kim
May we all realize we have in us the power to touch people as Jonnae, Denise and their family have...we live a life of transformation and remember what is most important in this life. WE may not have the chance to reached thousands, as she did, but there are people all around us who need to see a beacon of light in this sometimes harsh world. People, not things, matter most. This beautiful girl will live on in my heart always. Thanks, Denise, for opening your life to us and thank you, Bill, for being a wonderful support to the Taylors and for making the videos available for the rest of us. Wherever we are, whatever we do, may we all cause a transforming ripple effect in the world around us.
My "to do" list is no longer "to do" its' now called my GET TO LIST! Transformers have a blessed day! - Beth
Jonnae has touched so many hearts. I will proudly wear my bracelet in memory of her and how her story touched my heart.
I am in! Love & prayers continue for the Taylor family and all others who are part of this transformation family who are going through rough times. Remember, we go through these times, we don't move in here and take up residence. The key is to keep moving.
I GET TO! I GET IT! I am ordering 10 bracelet's today!
I get to be a member of this wonder group of loving people. This morning after work I GOT TO walk for 40 min in Jonnae's honor. I'll be ordering some of those bracelets for sure.
Bill, Thank you for this wonderful tribute to Jonnae and her contribution to us all in her short 15 years. Today I will put a bouguet of fresh flowers in my house so that I can remember Jonnae with a silent prayer each time I look at them, I'm so grateful that "I get to" be a part of this transformation community. Carol
I'm honored and blessed to "get to" be in!
I'm ordering the bracelets for my entire family. We sat down as a family and watched the video and it completely sunk in on how we Get To. God Bless You Taylor family.
I Get To - simply put. I'm "IN".
I thank GOD every day that I GET TO be a part of such a wonderful community like this. I always felt that I had a small family, but in the past 10 months, it has grown into the thousands. All I can say is WOW and Thank You all. Jonnae will forever be a memory instilled deep into all of our hearts. This is such a wonderful idea that you guys have started. Have a Blessed day all- JOHN
I also ordered bracelets yesterday. We will wear them and remember to live our lives fully and with great purpose. I am posting the C.A.R.E. statement on my fridge. I love this too. Blessings to all.
By grace, we are blessed to 'Get To', and I will do my best to live with that mindset everyday. Thank you to Jonnae and the Taylor's for your powerful, positive attitudes that will inspire millions. And to Bill, thank you for opening our eyes a little wider to help us notice what we are given every day. My family and I will proudly wear the bracelet, and give it a tug when we're not feeling an attitude of gratitude. Thanks, and God Bless.
Bill love the post, I am IN!!! I am so Blessed I GET TO wake up next to my beautiful wife who is expectiing our 2nd child, and next to my 3yr old son, I GET TO wake up thank GOD for Blessing me with another day and Blessing me w/ so many things in LIFE. I GET TO workout, I GET TO be a part of the best community on the internet the TRANSFORMATION COMMUNITY!!! I GET TO live LIFE and I dedicate it to JONNAE!!! We LOVE and MISS YOU DEARLY!!! GOD BLESS YOU ALL! IN HIM, Brad
I am dedicating my transformation in 08' to Jonnae.
I will be ordering braclets for my whole family. When I watched the video it hit me when she said those words " I GET TO" . I am in. Mike Turi
Bill, thank you for everything you do and this site. I am going to order a bunch of bracelets and maybe have T-shirts made. I teach fitness classes and am always trying to go a step beyond just cuing. I want my participants to be educated, inspired and motivated. I often bring in samples of protein shakes or bars so they can "try before they buy." I am also not hesitant about speaking up about my faith. I am going to start trying to get people to adopt the "I Get To" attitude, and I am going to start giving out T-shirts and wristbands and just see what happens....I'm hoping for a huge ripple effect! Praise God in all things! ~Leiana
Yes, I am "IN"! I feel lucky that I have been learning about Jonnae and her family and this very POSITIVE website! Will order braclets for my family. Thank you, Nancy
Jonnae's story really does put EVERYTHING into perspective, in so many ways. I want to cherish every single moment with my 2 daughters. I want to have a "get to" attitude in every circumstance, and I want to teach my girls to do the same. I want to trust God (F.R.O.G.) in all things, more than I have before. Jonnae was an amazing child with an incredible spirit, and I know that her life served a supernatural purpose. I am so grateful to Denise for allowing us to see it, and thank you, Bill, for drawing attention to this wonderful family and for supporting them the way you have. My bracelets have been ordered. I will wear mine proudly!
Thanks for the message in your post. We all tend to make excuses, be in a hurry all the time, get hung up on negativity and not take time to appreciate life. Your words and Jonnae's saying "I GET TO" will forever be embedded in my heart! I can't wait to receive my bracelet so I will be reminded daily that "I GET TO".
I'm in! Now I get to...do some sit-ups, go for a run, and then go to work. I love the CARE acronym, too.
I ordered 4. One for me and one for Jamie and the other two I will send to a couple BFL "recruits" that are now doing BFL because they witnessed our C1 transformations. I will wear mine proudly.
Bill, thanks for sharing this beautiful yound lady with us, I will be ordering the bracelets today in her honor.
Words can not convey all that Jonnae & Denise have meant to me or the growth or knowledge they have brought into my life. Nor is there anyway to count the tears but I know this..I GET TO loose 100lbs in her honor! Star Jumps for Jonnae XXX and her gift of LOVE brought to so many hearts ,Hugs,Laura
Dear Bill - YES, I'm IN. By God's grace, there is NOTHING today stopping me from saying I GET TO!!! I Get To : honor Jonnae! I Get To live life fully and abundantly. Before responding to your question, I ordered the purple "I Get To" bracelets for myself and my siblings here in South Africa, and I want to share Jonnae's legacy and the Taylor family with them, so they in turn will spread the word to all their friends as I will too. I'm one of those who has been saying: "I have to fit in my workout today" or "I have to eat correctly" not out of duty, but because I'm so committed to the programme, and wanting to achieve my goals, but from today, I will say "I GET TO" workout today, because I can and want to, and "I GET TO" do everything else. People all around me (at work, friends, at social events) say I'm so disciplined, strict, have strong willpower, etc. and I was saying it's because I HAVE TO stick to my goals to achieve my B4L. Henceforth, it will be I GET TO stick to my goals because I'm healthy and love being able to do so, and tell them where I get the quote from, and what it means to me. Not only Jonnae and Denise, but everyone on this transformation site - while I workout now, since joining this site, I'm aware as I'm doing an exercise that burns ;-) that in the world out there, many others are experiencing the same thing :) and it gives me extra willpower and motivation! A huge thanks to Bill, your team, and everyone on here! God Bless, DolphinGirl :)
How sad I was to read about Jonnae's passing today. But what an amazing impact this young spirit has had on so many of us. It is impossible to understand the Plan that God has for each of us, but it is clear that Jonnae was put on this earth to show us all how to be better, happier, more gracious souls. Thank you for sharing her story with us, Bill. And thank you to Jonnae and Denise for allowing this story to be told. My prayers are with the Taylor family for the dimming of this shining star in your lives.
WOW!!! Great Words of Wisdom..."I GET TO" give thanks and praise to God for helping me become a better person. Starjumps of JOY, please count me in...
Bill, I have a quote that hangs outside my clasrroom door. It says: There isn't anyone you couldn't love, once you've taken the time to listen to their story." Once we do this, it is often easy to appreciate and CARE for that person...it is easy to become astonished by the person you find within. Be transformed, and take the time to listen to someone's story today. Amy
I have just made the donation and i am really happy to see that a lot of people have already done so. It is not really about the amount of money you will give but about the act. So, if you cannot donate a lot, don't be ashamed ... it's the act that matters after all. `Chris~
I am SO IN because I GET TO give back to honor the most beautiful girl, inside and out, Jonnae and her family. Thank you Bill for your constant inspiring words. God Bless, Glenda
Count me in!!! I'm so blessed that I GET TO be a part of this amazing "transformation" family and have a little purple reminder of Jonnae in my life to continue to inspire me that I GET TO...do it all.
First, my sincere and heartfelt love goes out to Jonnae's family and friends. I just stumbled across her story yesterday (10 June) while surfing around and her story inspired me to register at transformation.com. Jonnae has already changed me in just a matter of hours.....her story is so inspiring, her persona is so enlightening, her amount of wisdom for a 15 year old is amazing to me and the ripple effect she sends out of positiveness and love has made it's way into my heart and life. I thank you for that. I will also order an "I GET TO" bracelet and everytime I find myself thinking a negative though, I'll switch it to the other arm so I make myself aware of what I am doing! I am very humbled by you Jonnae. I am also thankful that I can continue that "ripple" you started and hopefully, in time, it will cause a wave of positive people who also realize they "GET TO" rather than "HAVE TO" in their lives! God Bless you!!!!!!!!
It's great to see that with the sad passing of Jonnae that so much possitive energy can be created. A great example of the possitive effects of Quantum Physics!! I'll make sure Make a Wish Australia orders a ton of them!!
My daughter is in the middle of writing many exams this week. I didn't realize the news of Jonnae's passing would hit her so hard. Being just 14, she relates to having so much yet to do. We had a great talk about Jonnae, and how she accomplished so much, and her awesome attitude. I reminded her about "I GET TO" and it put a fresh perspective on her work load. She is excited to share this with her friends. I will definately get a supply of them to share this important transforming message. I love the idea of it being our community mantra. It totally fits with the mindset essential for transformation, and demonstrates a willing, grateful attitude. Very powerful. I love it.
I GET TO - Live with passion, I GET TO - Open my heart and arms to Transformation, I GET TO - Watch the Sunset, I GET TO - Look at the clouds, I GET TO - Be there for someone in need, I GET TO - Smile at the little things in life, I GET TO - Treasure special moments, I GET TO - find new 'wonders' in this amazing life, I GET TO - BE ME!
Hey Bill, I will make the commitment to change my 'have to's' to 'Get To's' in honor of Jonnae! I will also order that bracelet to remind me of my commitment everyday. Thanks for the positive spin, I think it's a great idea! Bob
If it weren't for Bill listening to God's commands, we wouldn't have gotten together to be the healthiest we could be. We wouldn't have met Denise and her family. Do you think it was a just a coincidence that we met Jonnae only a couple of months before she left us to meet her maker? No. Bill was nudged by the Big Guy and Bill listened. Denise was nudged and then we were honored to meet Jonnae. Jonnae taught all of us a lesson or two. Some drew strength because of her attitude and ordeal. Some, hope. Some, inspiration. Some, humility. Some, like me...shame. I'm ashamed of not doing more in my life and being an inspiration to everyone I meet. Jonnae, thank you. You made me a better person. I'll wear the bracelet with pride.
I GET TO TRANSFORM what I see and how I am seen everyday...to ground intelligibility, I GET TO conform to everyday practical norms, but that, by acting in the face of anxiety, I GET TO resist conformism and refine standard ways of acting...As I GET fully authentic, I can transform everyday practice. Thank You Jonnae Stay With The Program Samy Stay wit
Bill - I dont know you and you don't know me...and I've only been here for 3-ish days. But today I found myself talking about Jonnae a number of times. On the night of 6/8 I showed my 12 yr old daughter the video of Jonnae and we prayed for her and her family together. Yesterday, she caught me online just as I realized Jonnae had passed and I was crying. We held each other and had a moment in silence for her. Today my daughter gave me attitude and got whiney...and reminded her of Jonnae's courage during painful times. Tonight I visited with a friend from church who recently married in April & found out her husband is a different man and she's close to trying to get out....I brought up Jonnae and your site. I told her how positive an inspiring this little girl is....and how in the few hours I've been a member here, she's totally changed my outlook and the way I think. Tonight in your blog - YOU, BILL - have helped me see how I need to continue that to honor Jonnae and to keep that wonderful saying in my mind at all times...I GET TO. Geez....how simple yet profound. Thank you sooooo much for all you do and for keeping Jonnae's legacy alive. - Bella
I will be running with Team in Training, the Nike Women's Marathon in San Francisco (only my second). Team in Training raises money for blood cancers, just like Jonnae's. I recently signed up and was wondering who my "honored hero" would be -and now I know. It can be Jonnae! I can wear her name proudly on my jersey as I run and walk with 30,000 other people, committed to stopping blood cancers. Please email me for more info - Team in Training is an amazing org - and anyone can do a marathon or other endurance event - with their training and support and Jonnae's inspiration! tracijohn@mac.com
I am blessed that I get to be a part of this Transformation family. I also ordered a bracelet so I may keep Jonnae's spirit alive in my area. lots of love for everyone!
Funny you posted this today. Jonnae and her "I Get To" have been on my mind all day. As the Spirit led me, I had to share Jonnae's story with two ppl who have never heard of her. She had a message for the world - and we just can't keep it to ourselves. I have adopted "I Get To" as our new family motto. What an important lesson to teach our children - that life is to be lived, appreciated and loved. It's a blessing that we are privileged to participate in. We get to do His work and will. Jonnae did it with all her heart. I pray I can do it half as well. Thanks for introducing me to Jonnae.
I am so blessed that "I Get To" be a part of this wonderful Transformation family. The opportunity to keep Jonnae's legacy alive is such a blessing. Because of this precious angel, I will seek to make a difference in the world around me and continue to seek God's will daily. I am thankful that God sent this angel, who I never met, to make a huge impact in my life. Continue to draw me nearer to thee, O God! ~Kimberly
Bill I will order a whole bunch of them. You writing is beautiful and so heartfelt to honor a beautiful family! Thanks Taylors I just came back from I want t work out!! Peace! Marty
Thanks for extending a way for us to give back to the Taylor family. Being included in their journey with Jonnae has been an amazing experience. Excellent blog entry Bill. Pam
I am so excited that I will get to thank you in person in July. Body for Life was an answer to prayer. I bought it on a Sunday morning and read it Sunday night. I am speaking at the Kansas BFL event on June 21st. Here is a song that I just wrote. My speech is about STAYING IN COURAGE...I HAVE SOME PRETTY AWESOME ACRONYMS THAT HAVE TO DO WITH ENCOURAGEMENT...I'LL SEND THEM AFTER MY SPEECH. HERE IS THE BLESSING SONG THAT I WILL SING AT THE END...TO THE TUNE OF HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU...TRY SINGING IT... Health Blessing Song To the tune of Happy Birthday By Becky Southard 6/10/08 Healthy body to you! Healthy body to you! Stay in courage, dear champion! Healthy body to you! Put health FIRST and live strong. FAITH will help you along. FIGHT with thoughts words and actions. Write and sing your own song. FOLLOW the plan today. FLEE temptations to stray. FIND a way and just do it. Know anybody can. FORWARD march! Don’t look back. See the gains, not the lack. FOCUS on a great FUTURE. Now you’re getting the knack. Journey with this spirit: Make progress your habit. Not just 12 weeks but FOREVER. Never give up or quit. Healthy body to you! Healthy body to you! Stay in courage dear champion! Healthy body to you! Perhaps I'll write a song for Jonnae...about getting to live forever in heaven... Bless you always good teacher, Becky Southard 2003 BFL Champ
I Get To honor a beautiful young lady. I Get To keep Jonnae alive.
I ordered 3, I now have my "BFL LIVE IT" red Bracelet, Julie Whitt," Believe Achieve Inspire for Julie" Blue bracelet, The beautiful F.R.O.G Bracelet Jonnae personally made for me and now this very inspirational "GET TO" purple Bracelet to wear in Honor of Jonnae and all she taught us. What a wonderful community this is, Thank You Bill for starting it all, like Jonnae and Julie did you have touched so many lives. I am looking forward to meeting you in Tennessee in October. GET*HER*DONE LINDA
I am in too. Those words that she said are powerful words and wont be forgotten.
Thanks for a great post and for sharing the inspiration Jonnae has given you. I will from now on live with a GET TO attitude!
I am in for sure! ;) It will be quite an honor to wear the bracelet and be reminded of the message Jonnae carries on through her legacy. AMY
Bill, God has certainly gifted you with the ability to write. Thank you for all you do. I ordered my bracelet yesterday to go along with my red BFL bracelet. A constant remeinder that I GET TO live life! Sea ya 3 weeks.
From the other side of the world, all we could offer were thoughts and prayers. Now I GET TO actually do something .What a great way I GET TO remember and promote such a simple and strong ethic...I GET TO order one for me and one for each of my grandaughters..never to young to teach them positive thinking and purple just happens to be their favourite colour. Thanks Denise and thank you Bill for providing the forum for us to share.
Absolutely! Amazing the impact of 3 little words that Jonnae spoke has had on everyone. Richard
I am a firm believer that everything happens for a reason. Me and my husband completed the BFL program years ago and after recently losing my only sister to lymphoma, I decided that I needed to focus more on my health. I googled your name because I knew you had left EAS but wasn't sure what you were doing. I couldn't believe it when I found Transformations and that you were so supportive to Denise as she was telling us about her life with Jonnae. I could relate with so many of the feelings that Denise was going through. When you go through such an emotional situation, you really think about a lot of things. I had flown back to Colorado from NC mutliple times during the two months that my sister was battling this terrible disease. As I looked at others in the hallways of the hospital, I thought how strange this situation was that most of them were visiting people to encourage them to get better, while my family was there waiting for my sister to pass away. Jonnae reminded me so much of my sister as she too was so positive and didn't once complain about the pain she was experiencing or the mere fact that she had this disease. I was with my sister when she took her last breath and it was the most spiritual event that I have ever been through. She squeezed our hands and found enough strength to open her eyes and give us a smile. There was no panic in the room, but rather such a sense of calmness and love. Jonnae and Shelly have truly inspired so many people. I am in the process of training for a 5 hour test for my 3rd Degree Black Belt. The test is comprised to test not only your physical endurance but your mental endurance too. I am definatetly going to get one of the bracelets to remind me that I don't have to train, but I GET TO train and prove to myself that I can do anything that I put my mind to.
I am in. I GET TO do something nice. Thank you Taylor family for all that you gave so others my learn. God Bless Jmarie
I just ordered 2 bracelets which I GET TO wear when I train and feel unnmotivated because of my minor health problems.. Its so amazing to see how God brings messages and stories of faith,hope strength and courage to many people and this was done through Jonnae's celebration of life. God loved her so much and needed his angel back with him where she will continue to shine on and bring joy to HEAVEN. This I believe. I GET TO enter a body competition in Australia in SEPTEMBER. I GET TO train HARD and SUCCEED. God bless and love to all carmen
I'm in! I kept thinking about her Monday and "I get to" on more set, one more rep, one more chance to better my health in her honor. The Taylor family has touched my soul. Thank you! Al
As I was ordering the bracelets yesterday, I knew life for me would be different. I thought of Denise and Jonnae through the day, and the emotions were overwhelming...not only sadness, but sincere gratitude and something new...for people I haven't met...a new type of love. Sometimes there's heartache, but still I GET TO make healthy changes because of Jonnae...and all the people adding loving thoughts and support to this site. Thank you all so very much!
Dear Bill, thank you for posting the blog about Jonnae. It is amazing how someone I've never met could have such an impact on me. Yesterday I cried when I found out that passed away, but today instead of grieving her death, I was happy about the way she lived and how she taught me how to be strong. Today I GET TO honor the memory of Jonnae Taylor by buying a wristband. I've donated something to Light the Night for Team FROG as well. I only wish it could have been more, but I GET TO make a difference. My prayers go out the the Taylor family and I hope that they find peace in knowing that Jonnae is with God and SHE GETS TO be in heaven.
Bill, I got to meet you at the Celebration of Jonnae's life. An incredible day I'll never forget. I've known Denise from high school, and have followed Jonnae's journey. From the inspiration of Jonnae and Denise, I completed my first 84 day challenge yesterday, ironically on the day she passed. I've lost 25 pounds, and feel great . I'm ready for the second one to begin. I am a physical therapist with all the exercise equipment at my fingertips, and finally after knowing what all Jonnae faced everyday, said "enough already", if this kid can do all she is doing, what is my excuse? My excuse was always "not enough time". I take care of patients all day, and three children after work, one who has multiple disabilities. Denise and Jonnae have made me step my life up a notch. I GET TO take care of myself, and then I'll take care of everyone else. Truly life changing!!!
I am IN!!! I am excited to get this wonderful bracelet to honor Jonnae, and to stand as a reminder that I get to... everyday!
Dear Bill, Thank you for providing such an inspiring blog on Jonnae's I GET TO and what that means to you. I have signed up with Team in Training, to participate in the Nike 1/2 marathon in October. Originally I had signed up for an event in June, but had three injuries due to being 51, overweight and out of shape......so I decided to do the October event instead walking this time. My training just started today......with a 2 mile brisk walk.....and I DID IT......thinking about Jonnae and how she is my honoree on my webpage......and how important Denise is to me as well. I'll be ordering my bracelet....the purple will go great with the Team In Training logo.....My new mantra is I GET TO DO IT FOR JONNAE......and you know what? I WILL DO IT to raise funds to stop this terrible disease. Thank you for this site and your compassion and how sincere you are. In Christ, Audrey Giorgio
Yup! Ordered mine alkready.. I'm gonna GET TO give them out to everyone I know, so they GET TO wear purple :)
I ordered several the other day. My father in law has always made the comment, It's not a have to, it's a get to, when he would ask someone if they wanted to do something. It always made sense and I started using it on my kids. Never did it have the meaning or intensity to it when I heard it from Jonnae's perspective. Your post Bill is right on, you know my situation and over the past couple of weeks, when I would get really low and start feeling sorry for myself, Jonnae and Denise would come to my mind, I would immediately slap myself around and think, what, what do you have to be down about. This situation, is NOTHING. In the big picture, it is a blemish, a blemish that with time will go away. Although I have never talked to either one of them, they have given me so much strength to take on all that is thrown my way. I owe them both enormously. I find myself hurting more for Denise right now and her emptiness she must feel right now then my own situation. It is frustrating that only time can heal that for her. I wish there was something that could be said or done to make it quicker. My prayers are with her completely.
I'm in times two, my wife's favorite color is purple so I Get To get her one also.
Wow! Very well said Bill!!! I get to experience the love and compassion of our transformation community along with learning as I coach some these amazing transformers who are stepping up and out of the old and into the new person God intended them to be. ~Coach Stoney
Absolutely in! At 5am this morning, running with my girlfriends, I told Denise and Jonnae's story. I was talking, huffing and puffing as I ran. They ran and cried. it touched their hearts. My heart has been touched so deeply by their beautiful, beautiful story. They are overflowing with love and an amazing amount of strength. I feel like a am different because of them and this community. I am changed forever. I used Jonnae's motto today: I got to have fun in the sun with my children all day. Thank you for you post. Your words are always inspiring, always moving. ~Corina
My family has been asking what I would like for fathers day….I just found it, a special purple bracelet.
"I'm In!!!". In honor of Jonnae and in the spirit of her "get to" attitude - I'm going to live a life of appreciation. Thanks Bill for a great message and thanks Jonnae and the Taylor family for living lives of thankfulness. Jill
You know I'm in, or at least you should. In fact I've been waiting for there to be an in to be in. -Art
I just ordered my bracelet and cannot wait to get it and wear it so I can tell everyone what it means to me to wear it. I have an entirely new out look on life now because of Jonnae. ~Shannon
I ordered the bracelet yesterday...those words have consumed my mind and the bracelet will serve as a reminder should I ever forget or start thinking otherwise. Life is what you make it, you are so right! Today has been an amazing day for me. I have made some amazing connections with people here who have had the same struggles and are looking to move past it! I appreciate EVERYONE on this site...you are changing my life everday. Jonnae has changed my life forever...as have you Bill. A lot of us owe your our lives! TODAY.....I GET TO treat others with CARE (Compassion, Appreciation, Respect, Encouragement) - I love this.
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