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Transformation Lesson #9

The Willingness to Learn

Dear Friends,

Today’s lesson is about learning – specifically, how much we can learn from each other. And that is something that this transformation community offers all of us right here and now.

For example, Marty Goldman, the first 2008 Transformation Champion, is online here just about every day and is happy to answer people’s questions about how he accomplished such extraordinary results. And, Marty’s weekly videos are just a click away. I've learned so much from watching these videos again and again. They help remind me of the power of this process and how truly real and rich the changes are.

By the way, we’ve made a great new upgrade on our video broadcasting horsepower. The picture is much bigger and better, the sound is improved, and the streaming is smoother. You can see the new format on Marty’s Intro and Finale now. Our whole broadcasting system will be continually upgraded in the weeks ahead.


In addition to the transformation videos, I learn a lot from reading people’s profiles and blogs. My favorites are the ones from people who are following the assign-
ments, doing their work, and authentically and enthusiastically sharing their experience. For instance, one of the best examples I’ve seen of how to do the first assignment has been done by CreatingGoodness. What a wonderfully open, creative, and insightful example this is. Be sure to check it out when you have a moment.

Also, Dude’s profile, blogs, and homemade videos are outstanding. And so are his results so far. Click here to see for yourself. What I like about “Dude’s” approach is that he’s obviously doing some serious work but he’s also having fun with it. And that’s the way it should be. This Transformation Challenge is as much about a change of heart as anything else. The lightening of the heart equals enlivening of the spirit. When we can see the signs of that happening and we can feel that we’re letting go of the “inner heaviness," then we’re really getting somewhere. And I believe that many of you are beginning to notice this – even if it’s subtle right now, it’s powerful.

You see, this transformation is not a “fight.” It’s not a “battle.” It’s not even really a competition. At the beginning point, it might seem like it is these things but now that you‘re moving along in the process, you’re probably starting to have a shift in your perspective. Rather than competition, it’s about cooperation. It's about each of us doing our part to BE THE CHANGE, so that we can all win. There’s enough health, enough energy, enough enthusiasm and enough kindness, compassion, and generosity, for everyone. As a matter of fact, these qualities are infinite. And instead of this being a fight or a battle, I wouldn’t be at all surprised if you were starting to recognize that the kind of progress we’re aiming for – spiritual progress – is much more about letting go of the struggle, surrendering the fight, and going with the Divine Will, instead of resisting it. What I've discovered is it's a lot better, a lot more fun, and a lot healthier to live this way.

Michelle TAnd that’s exactly what Michelle T, a Transformation All-Star and veteran would certainly confirm. Her physical transformation is stunning; one of the best I’ve ever seen. And when I met her last month, it was immediately apparent that her inner transformation was extraordinary as well. Michelle has “it.” That inner radiance and happiness – that inner confidence, faith and genuine kindness which we all have the potential to embody.

And so today’s assignment is to invest a little time in learning from others, right here on the site. Be careful not to limit yourself by connecting with just a select few. This is an extremely positive, safe, and transforming environment which makes it a great place to make new friends every week while nurturing existing friendships.

Okay… I’ve shared a few examples of transformation teachers whom I admire. The fact is there’s dozens and dozens more. What I’m hoping you’ll help me with is acknowledging someone who’s mentored you on the transformation path so far. For example, someone whose profile you’ve been inspired by or somebody whose given you some authentic, sincere and beneficial insight when you needed it. Perhaps some of these mentors fly under the radar and are relatively unknown here in the community. Perhaps your comment below can shine a little bit of the spotlight their way. This will allow us to get to know each other better and become even more of an interconnected community of teachers and students who are all making healthy changes in our lives.

Looking forward to your comments and insight…

Bill

P.S. Assignment #10 in 3 days. New success story video in 2.

August 25, 2008 | comments (116) | Notes from the Path

teachnmommy wrote 23 Days Ago

Every person has a story tell. Every person has a lesson to teach. I truly believe in listening to others and taking something from their life and trying to imply it to mine to make me a better person. There are so many people who are inspriational in some way or another. I could list, but the list would be long. Everyone is capable of teaching. Everyone is capable of learning. The best way to learn, so that we can teach is to learn from the best teacher...Jesus!!!

GETHERDONELINDA wrote 39 Days Ago

Since I am recaping my challenge and seeing what changes have taken place I wanted to add to this . I said I reconized Coach Stoney for his little pm's and being there for me. Coach you are still and more then ever at the top of my list. But I wanted to add this. On the 9 hr drive home from Tn I I thought of all the people that have touched my life and inspired me, there really honestly are tooooo many to name as I have met so many at least 300 people over the past 4 years. However there are a few people that have really steped out and left an impression on me that will stick with me 4-ever. # 1, My husband Bill for all his support in my journey, he's my mentor and my best friend. my mama and Daddy for the great values they taught me. Michelle Lee for always encourageing me to keep going, and my age is just a number. Porter Freeman for teaching me you can have fun at a party without drinking To Arron Ferguson who taught me that I need to be accountable to myself and not rely on anyone else. and To Bill Phillips for teaching me that we all are human and all make mistakes, it's what we do about those mistakes that make the difference in our life. we can let the mistake control us and overwelm us or we can learn from it and move on. Love, GET*HER*DONE LINDA

AmyBrooks wrote 61 Days Ago

Wow, I don't know where to even start. I haven't participated much on the boards because I lost my internet for almost a month. Before that I was just getting into particpating and getting to know people and now that I'm FINALLY back I feel like I'm starting all over again. There are a few people that I definately appreciate though. First is Dude. He is always checking up on me and making sure I'm still around. He even mentions that he hasn't seen me in a while, which makes me feel good that someone would even notice. Another person I have to thank is BeYourOwnBeatiful. I actually met her on another site and we re-connected here. Lori is such a loving person and has so much to offer as a friend and I love that she is always willing to kick my butt :). There are others, but that's what I can think of off the top of my head.

timberly66 wrote 65 Days Ago

Gosh, this is a hard lesson...do I have enough space on here to type all those that have influenced me so far....I don't want to leave anyone out because there has been so much love and support given to me here on transformation. So, I will try my best and if I leave anyone out...just tell me and I will add your name...cuz there are SO, SO, SO, SO many of you..... 1. First of all, my brother Heath (sooner_heath)...he is new to this site but he is the one that intially introduced me to Body for Life back in the day. He also takes none of my rumblings, excuses or mayhems as reasons I should not be working to be healthy and happy....he is my biggest and best cheerleader, but can give me a kick in the A$$ when I need it!!! I love you brother....!!! You've had my back a long time and I love you with my everything!!! I LOVE YOU! 2. The Stone - what a man, what a friend, what an inspiration! I am a happy girl that you came into my life and are lending an ear, a direction and a soft place to fall....I love you man!!! I am indebted to you for your kindness. Thank you! I love you always...from your SND!!! I LOVE YOU! 3. Clarissa - Girl, I think you are awesome...you have such a big heart and sweet spirit, that I can't help but fall in love with you. Thank you for making my journey here a place of refuge...and humorous too! (I'm still gonna get me some of them "fast running shorts." hee/ I LOVE YOU! 4. Marty - Who pulled me through when my baby was going to college.....Marty did!!! YAY Marty! Thanks for your inspiring story and your down to earth personality! and your transformation HUGS....I LOVE YOU! 5. Jan - My Friend...you have been with me through lots of things this past year...through my lung tumor scares and my triumphs....Thank you for knowing me and loving me anyways.....I LOVE YOU! 6. MichelleT - You inspire me! You have been where I am at and you show me everyday that I can do this. Thank you for your encouragement and your support and thank you for giving me hope!! I LOVE YOU! 7. Starina - My new friend from Kenya!! I have so much in common with you...it's like we were twins that went to different parents..huh?? You have written me and kept track of me from day 1 and have inspired me. I am in awe of your friendship and your love for your work. I can't wait to hug you in real time....I LOVE YOU! 8. My BFL Tracker Friends.....Elizabeth, Suz, MichelleT, Dani, Dana, Jim, Debi, Kerrie, K-girl, Jen, Connie, Ames, JasonBo, Bubblz, Austinite, Jami, Sara, Jac & Linda...you all started me on my journey before I knew about transformation.com and I am so thankful for your friendships. I LOVE YOU! 9. My New T-Friends - all 66 of you as of today...my 2 favorite numbers are 14 and 66..isn't it odd that 66 fell on this day....ha/ you each inspire me...it doesn't matter what profile I pull up it is inevitably someone I identify with...maybe it is that we are all on this journey together...positively moving forward to greatness and success.....I LOVE YOU! 10. AND, last but not least, Mr. Bill, (Bill Phillips, not the Mr. Bill from Saturday Night Live for all you kids from the 80's...hee/) Although I have never met you personally, I have read your books cover to cover...I have watched your videos and tracked my progress in your planner. I feel like I know you, because you have had such an influence in my life. Thank you for that! I LOVE YOU! I have and hope to continue learning from each of you...you make me feel loved and special and thank you for giving me hope and letting me know I AM strong enough to be a better me!!! I LOVE YOU ALL tim

Vicky14 wrote 69 Days Ago

I apologize for not comment or completing this assignment earlier but better later than never....I keep coming back to this website because everyone here gives me inspiration...when I am feeling that I can't do this challenge or transformation I read all the different blogs and I get strength to keep going....Some people that have inspired me are MARTY, COACH STONEY, and BILL. Thank you and everyone on this website for taking the time and giving a little inspiration to me and others...Keep it up!!!! Vicky

shgockley wrote 71 Days Ago

I haven't been here all that long...at least not long enough to truly get to know anyone as of yet. I have read a lot about everyone and get a strong sense of how each member of this community truly is and feels. That, in itself, is an inspiration. If I have to choose one person that has given me the most inspiration up until this point, it has been Bill. I knew when I wanted to get back in shape the thoughts starting coming together about 2 months ago. The first thing I remembered was the Body of Work video. That's what began my search that landed me in this community.

ruready wrote 73 Days Ago

I have learned so much through reading the forums and mostly the blogs of the wonderful members of this site. I find so many people inspirational and full of great wisdom. This is a truly exceptional community of people representing what being the change is all about.

Martinz wrote 75 Days Ago

That is exactly how I have been feeling lately.For the first 6-7 weeks I was looking at this as a competition. I was very regimented in everything I did, Eating, exercising, water intake, supplements. And I felt that I was setting myself up for what happened after my 1999 challenge. I burned out and forgot what I went through. During the last month I have said to myself that this will be different----and why??? Because of all the great people here and the support that everyone gives each other. There are so many helpful people here and if I mention one I might miss someone who will be hurt and I don't want to hurt someones feelings. The people who helped - not only the people that are listed as t-com buddies, but everyone else as well. But getting back to the topic, I am not competing anymore. It is not a competition for me, its a lifestyle that will define who I am now and in the future. With a competition, you get to a point and the competition is over. This is not over, this is permanent. This is what defines me, someone who tries to be the best person one can be, both mentally, physically, and spiritually. I wake up early to workout, I eat right, I treat everyone with compassion and respect. I try to be helpful. When I changed my mindset to the point where I said this is not a competition anymore, I felt more relaxed and am enjoying the journey so much more. Thank you Bill.

theprophet wrote 75 Days Ago

First of all Iam sorry for not writting sooner...Iam kinda computer illeiterate, but I'll overcome this small obstacle...Iam very inspired by all of you, your stories, the challenges of life that you have overcome...Iam very inspired by the people who are incredibly busy but make the time!!! WE all have seven days a week,we all have 24 hours in a day, it's a matter of organization and priority. For me personally it's a mindset of" I get to workout today, I get to eat right today and I get a chance to Be the Change!!! When I first did BFL in 2002 I was practically homeless living out of my car delivering pizza. BFL kept me focused, possitive and got me in the best shape of my life!!!! Now my job has me working insane hours, travelling sometime as much as seven cities in two weeks. I have fallen out of shape mentally ,physically, and spiritually. So right now this Transformation is so important for many reasons!!! And as I have said you all inspire me, but most of all Bill Phillips...if not for your vision and dedication where would we all be right now doing what? Thank you Bill...and Thank you each and every one of you!!! ( and yes I am doing the lessons, I had to have a co worker take my before picture in between jobs in Sidney Australia...that was weird!!!)

steve41337 wrote 76 Days Ago

In terms of who has helped me the most here it has to be Mighty Marty, all the wonderful members of the July 7th Group, Coach Stoney (and of course you Bill) as well as many more.! Thank YOU everyone!

DanaD wrote 76 Days Ago

Wow-where do I start?! Well 1st & foremost it..I learn from you Bill and I am forever grateful! Ever since that fateful day in Dec 1999 when I seen you on the Montel show & went out & bought BFL, my life has never been the same-THANK YOU! Next I must say my girl MELLIE! Ive known Mellie for a couple of years...and it was her that brought me to this wonderful site & reached out to me when I sooo desperatly needed it. Girl-I love you and THANK YOU! Mellies transformation has given me HOPE, faith & inspires me every day. COACH STONEY--I am learning so much from you! You too welcomed me with open arms, reached out when I felt so alone,confused and beatdown & I love you for that! Plus...you believe in me-- and that means more than words can express! GLOOMRAIDER-I am continually learning from you & your luv always comes exactly when I need it! To see how you have overcome PTSD is like Im finally seeing the light at the end of the dark tunnel! Luv you Mannn! TIMBERLY-My long-lost twin: WITH you, I learn each day what its like to "Come into the light!" Just 4 weeks ago we were both depressed, mean, BITTER & in self-hate mode--NOW LOOK AT US BABAYYY!! :) I am learning to be a better person thru you-and to watch you change right before my eyes is AMAZING! Thanks Girl-love you! Sorry to just name a few-each & every person I "meet" here is bringing SOMETHING POWERFUL & IMPORTANT to me during this journey! THANK YOU!!

Brenna wrote 76 Days Ago

Wow, there are so many beautiful souls on this site that are consistently there for me and everyone else. People who particularly inspire me with their blogs or comments include Jacqui, sunlightandshadows, RightLight, fitme, Kathy, Marty, & my July 7th start time time of course!

momyofeight wrote 78 Days Ago

Ok...this will take a few minutes!!! LOL I thought long and hard about how to write this. I've been here 33 days so far and each interaction I've had has been a loving, learning experience. In that short time these friends have reached out to me. Here's a list of my teachers and a word or phrase that represents what I have learned from them or what they bring to mind: (in no particular order) HUMDINGER-teasing/laughter, MARTY-Joy in the journey, SOCRKX-determination, DIANE (STARJUMPS)-enthusiasm, HEIDI-gratefullness, TOK2ME-encouragment, PLANTMAN-spirituality, "ME"-Radiance, CREATIVE FOCUS-kindness, BUCCANEER-inspirational, STONEY-going above and beyond, LIFEIZGOOD-sweetness, GK-strength of character, DADOF8-my hero, PETRONELLA-happiness, AK5250-motivator, JERIANNE-optimistic, JOVITA-genuine, AIMEED-caring, JRNYGIRL-beautifully transparent, HEATHER-enjoying family, KATH-joyful, JILLY-goal setter, JAN-acheiver, SUNSHINE-radiating the beauty of Christ, RIGHTLIGHT-giving and energizing, CHRISHARO-"Nothings gonna keep you down!", NIAHM-graciousness, JUDYB0005-pure beauty, DUDE-positive attitude, GABRIELLE1961-"choose to be happy", MOM2SIX-encourages me to reach for the stars, RISE AND SHINE-miles of smiles, PROSPERALWAYS-consistent, SUNLIGHTANDSHADOWS-authentic, MSSHELLEY-reaching out to others, TEACHNMOMMY-depend on God, BOBBYG1018-overcoming, KRISTIE-Livin' 10, LAURA-giving of herself, ACGIRL-truly nice, ON2NURSING-time to "DO!", KATHYTNT-amazing!, BAGLEY61-live strong and stay in bloom, GAINSVILLE3469-warm welcomes mean alot, TEEGEE11-change to confidence, BELIEVEINHIM-become the best you possible, MDMOMOFTWO-fun, COACHBRAD-prayer warrior, GLOOMRAIDER-conquerer, LEIANA-lead with humility, FITME-"never give up",MARTINZ-act of your beliefs, MILLIE-reclaim your life, JEFFSBRODIE-shares life, LINDSGD-live it for God, HUNTFLETCHSHELBY-get the mindset, AKNIER-dream big, PROBWHITE-put knowledge into action, ARTLAWRENCE-keep a great sense of humor, DUSTYLUV-kicking butt, GRACENPEACE2U-its time for living, DISCIPLINE1-give to live, CBALZLY-find joy in the small things. Thats a lot of love and learning in a short amount of time!! Thanks to each of you!! And lastly BILL-no dream is too big!

KillianGirl wrote 78 Days Ago

I too have been inspired by Dude and many others. I have been reading his blog almost daily. I would also like to thank my transformation group...July7 Start group. There are some really great people who daily remind me to do a little better. ---LaNae

Bonniebelle2 wrote 78 Days Ago

I couldn't name just one or two who have inspired me on this site.... I think each person that I have come in contact has touched my life and inspired me in some way! There is so much to learn here, we just have to be open to receive the lessons. I am relatively new here and have never participated in a challenge, so I probably have more to learn than most, but I have to say that I have truly enjoyed reading the posts, profiles and blogs. I wish I had time to read every single one! Thank you to all who welcomed me to the site and visited my page or blog and thanks to all of you who have shared a part of yourself and your story through your blogs, profiles and posts! A big thank you to Bill for starting this site and helping so many people transform their lives! A truly amazing site! Hugs, Bonnie

jerryb wrote 81 Days Ago

Sharen Martin really inspired me,all the times she tried to start the prigram and things happen.Like gettinig scared ,pregnant it just wasn't the right time for her yet.Then the scare came about the cancer, that gave her the courage and strenth to do what she had to do. She didn't quit she kept on going and did her transformation and the rest is history. I'm very proud of Sharen Martin she's very inspirational. I wish her and her family the very best. Jerryb

ek3ed wrote 82 Days Ago

Marty Goldman was the one who inspired me to take up this challenge. He showed to me that anything is possible if you just believe, decide and take action. Thank you Marty. Now as I become the change that I want to see in the world, my personal relationship with God has grown so much. I am guided by Him in all that I do and all that I do is for His glory. I know what all things are possible with God. So dream big and partner with God and He will make them come true. God Bless and have a fantastic day!

FitBella wrote 83 Days Ago

We moved from Florida to Georgia this year and the one person that has been a mentor to me was my trainer who turned out to be one of my very dear friends. We worked out together at 5:30am so we could accommodate her schedule as she left training to become a nurse and is in school. Not having her in my daily life has been a struggle, now I am working out alone and sometimes this is hard (Thank God for IPods) I am hoping to connect with others that are like minded and have the same kind of lifestyles and goals.

atwin wrote 83 Days Ago

Everyone here has inspired and helped me. The journey thus far has been fun and challenging because I know that you guys are right there with me. However, if I have to single out some individuals…… Rightlight for reaching out to me first; Plantman for being my spiritual friend; Dustyluv and Silly for making me laugh; RiseandShine who gives me food for thought; MichelleT’s pics are really motivating; Dude for his words of wisdom; Kathytnt...my Virgo friend who spreads good cheer; MartyGoldman and Lifeizgood for their incredible transformation; Starina for reaching out to us from across the way..she is kicking butt; Losefatnotfaith for helping us all in the exercise forum; dianneorwig for the motivational pics in her blog; and foreverdawn who has the hardest job of being a school teacher and trying to find her way in this transformation. And last but not least….Bill for keeping in touch and being the change.

Towerdog wrote 83 Days Ago

I would have to say,you Bill for creating a place where we can all come together and learn from one another.I think everyone here is inspirational and has valuable input.We all come from different walks of life and everyone should remember that they matter,as does there input.Its all about learning and growing.With me my schedule is so crazy that when I get to my workout time,some times I need a little extra motivation and without even having to ask,they have the right thing to say.Thank you all so much.

amdrmd13 wrote 83 Days Ago

I haven't spent too much time on the site so I do not have anyone to call a mentor. Being a personal trainer and wroking with kids, I am kind of looked to for that. I will look through so of the profiles that spark my interest and hopefuly connect with some good people that can help me stay on course and i can help them.

TXTransformer wrote 84 Days Ago

I really enjoy this site. I think everyone on Transformation.com has in some way affected someone here. Every time I log on I find someone new that has given me inspiration. I noticed Dude's progress about 3 weeks ago and was amazed by his progress. There are so many profiles that I have visited that have brightened my day, made me laugh, made me think, I learned from, or inspired. One person's profile that has inspired me that I have not seen mentioned below is jshelton, I wish that I had left more comments on people's profiles. That is something I am working on.

jan wrote 84 Days Ago

I want to shine the spotlight on all of the bloggers! There are AMAZING posts in all of the blogs and I make an effort to read every one of them! The easiest way to read all of them is to click on blogs, Latest User Blogs-View All..........just start reading all of the latest posts! There is so much information there and if the bloggers are like me, a lot of thought and time is spent going into each of the blog posts!! Thank you T.com blggers!!! Keep 'em coming!

Annissa wrote 85 Days Ago

There is not one single person on this site that has not inspired me. But if i must mention a few... Coach Stoney has moved my heart so deeply and helped me really truly look inside at why i am holding myself back in life. You Bill have Touched Moved and Inspired me to really reach out and take a hold of life and live it not just go thru each day to get thru it. Shane has made me laugh all the way and shown me what true courage really means. And my sweet amazing friend Heather who is just always there to drop an encouraging email or post on my home page. She is so inspirational and I admire her. There are so many others that i know i am missing and I luv you all. I am not the same Annissa because of you all and for this I truly thank you.~ Annissa

FlyEl wrote 85 Days Ago

I am so glad for every single person here. I am especially glad that my friend MickyO :) posted the link that day and I found this place. It took me a little bit to come and start, but I'm here... :) Now I just need to be here a lot more. I have told others about the wonderul, positiveness of this place. It really (to me) has a totally different vibe. I am very grateful to have found it. Take care everyone. :)

nasa10202004 wrote 85 Days Ago

Michelle is awesome, inside and out. I am a huge fan and a proud friend. Bill it is AWESOME you are recognizing these great transformations. You have been an inspiration to us all!!!

ikigai wrote 86 Days Ago

Oh my! Bill Thanks to you and your Transformation site I now have beautiful friends like Clarissa "rightlight" and Coach-Stoney, who are very supportive and their letters as well as their post on their profile sites and forums are wonderful lessons in life. I also have encountered great knowledge, experience, ideas and words of support from members like: DianeOrwig, sunshine143, LooseFatNotFaith, Laura, Heather, Mellie, Heidi, Shane and many others. Thanks to this site, I have learned from others; I have meditated about my life; I have cried for the difficult moments of others; I have admired others and gotten my spirit lifted with hope and belief that I can accomplish similar goals; Heck!... I have even prayed for others when they have asked for it. Thank you for providing this wonderful learning and TRANSFORMATION experience. - Ikigai

venemcd wrote 86 Days Ago

Marty has inspired me from the very beginning. Now I looked at Creatinggoodness' entries and I thank her for keeping me motivated as well! I'm having to deal with a serious knee inflamation and had to put a stop to all workouts, icing 4x/day, etc. But the eating right and keeping the focus has been a life saver! Work has been a bear - child abuse and neglect - so I can't be reading and writing here like some of you, but you are my angels and I will not stop. Back to the eliptical tomorrow! And level 10 means heart rate at 170! Not bad for a 54-year-old!:)

misschriss wrote 86 Days Ago

Hi Bill, I want to say that being a part of this community has helped me in many ways, not just the transformation of my spirit, body, and mind. It has provided me with a network of like-mind friends that really care about what I think. I used to be a part of another transformation community, but I felt like I was talking to the wind, and that no one ever even responded to my comments. The worst part was that I had to pay a monthly fee to be a part and I felt alone. On the good news, just the other day, Jerome (Plantman) stopped by my profile just to say, "Hi" and give encouragement. That was a WOW moment for me! And another day I was in a forum that discussed daily nutrition, and I posed a question about one of the items mentioned, and Diane wrote back and told me what it was! I do not feel invisible here, I BELONG AND MATTER to others. And after all, that is a big part of what its all about. Thank you transformers! P.S. Bill, if you started asking us to subscribe to your site, I would pay and it would be so worth it!

Dustyluv wrote 86 Days Ago

You know Bill...Every single time I help someone my spirit soars and THEY HELP ME!!!! Getya somma that!!!

bagley61 wrote 86 Days Ago

Michelle has inspired and helped me over the past year.

Everyone's story gives me inspiration and faith knowing that we are all in this together and I too can do this and be the change.

I thank and appreciate all of you :<), Paul.

cwinters wrote 87 Days Ago

When I joined I was 30 days in sobriety the longest I had been sober in over six years. I was battling alcoholism alone. Because of my shame I fooled myself into thinking I was not an alcoholic and that I would prove it by quitting alone. Coach Stoney came along out of no where and offered support BUT only if I was truly committed to stopping. Coach Stoney was firm speaking from his experience no beating around the bottom line approach alcoholism will kill you, period he wrote. His straight forward approach and the 12 step Big Book links he shared in one of his blogs forever changed my life, correction it saved my life. For the first time I was listening to recording and reading about alcoholism. I say the light and knew I could never do this alone. Today, because of Stoney I belong to a Big Book 12 step program, have a sponsor, been sober for 87 days (as of this post), and I look forward to helping others when I complete the program. I now feel for the first time that I have my life back, that my three kids will grow up with a sober father. I am so thankful!!!!

rpeebles wrote 87 Days Ago

This maybe one of the most difficult assignments yet, for there are so many people who have inspired me, offered their assistance, and even kicked me in the backside when it was needed. I will take the easy way out and say this, the people who have helped me, I hope they know who they are, and this entire T-Nation are incredible. I started this summer with a horribly bad attittude. My glass was definetly half empty. And while I am still struggling with many things, I have learned so much. I have learned about finding peace in myself, and about psuhing myself to the limit. I have found the desire to surrender myself to a higher power. I have seen the soul of many. I have been driven by the energy and smiles of others. I have even had people hit so deep in my soul that it pissed me off, that is the true sign of creating a spark in my life, mostly because I didn't want to hear the truth. I only have one man though who wants me to get rid of the hat, but I love him more and more each day because he becomes a greater inspiration each day. You all are my hero's because not only have you taken on the decision to change your own lives, but you have opened your hearts and minds to everyone who is willing to listen. Thank you Bill for providing this network of love and support.~Peebs~

RUSTYDIVA58 wrote 87 Days Ago

deniset and Jonnae,marty,kathytnt and Shane who welcomed me into this community.These people are incredibly inspiring.and,of course you,Bill!!!!! Rusty

gloomraider wrote 87 Days Ago

I continue to receive so very, very much from each and every one of you here. First and foremost among you all though is ..... my wife NIAMH - she continues to support, enable and inspire me daily. She makes my heart sing and I'm delighted to be sharing our "Transformation journey" together.xxx I also take great delight in seeing how people are progressing and growing through this process (a snapshot of some of you includes) ; DanaD, jeffsbrodie, Udenialee, Happiness, B1200, Laura, jackieangel, momyofeight, creatinggoodness, sunlightandshadows, bigd2375, tim, Christine ... . You don't know what witnessing your journeys do to and for the rest of us ! ... and I couldn't put together a list of thanks without including rightlight, riseandshine, mellie, humdinger, coachbrad, dianneO, michellet, deniset, mikeharris, lifeizgood, richard, marty, coachstoney and Bill. Thank you ALL (named and unnamed) for being such an enormous blessing in my life !!

chrisforlife wrote 87 Days Ago

I have gotten so much from this challenge, and so much from people in it. Little things mean everything to me. The people who have taken the time to respond or communicate with me (even though Im terrible at communicating back) stick in my head when Im not anywhere near a computer, let alone this website. I remember the comments people like GK, socrkx, b1200, Dude, have left me when Im sitting at my job/house with a rocking case of the "poor me's" and "not good enough's". Knowing that there are people paying attention whom I have never met, and who take the time to just say "Hi" makes all the difference. It gives me hope about the future, and about what Im capable of....what we're capable of. thanks to all.

JanM wrote 87 Days Ago

The main thing I have learned about transformation from this site is the power of WE. As I read daily how you are doing, how you are doing it, feel the impact of connecting with you...I am transformed for the better. Some I am getting to know a little more, but just like in life, a stranger's smile my way can make my day, as does a little comment from someone... it all contributes to a very fulfilling experience. I could spend all day on here learning about what makes each of you tick in this process and cheering you on. I appreciate all of you that make this an an extraordinary community.

judyb0005 wrote 87 Days Ago

Every Transformer here !....I have made so many changes for the better and this is due to ALL here at T...I have helped people make changes aswell . We all are doing this in a way like i have never seen before....I am so lucky to have this community and everyone in it...I havent met ONE person yet that hasnt influenced me inside and out....We all deserve a BIG HUG and a Pat on the back for showing each other encouragement and love..Thank you Transformers...

jimandrachel wrote 87 Days Ago

I would like to thank Dude, Millie, Towerdog, Mae, BlessedTulip, GoFigure, Imzwact, Laura, Rightlight, BrianLee, MartinZ, Floorance, NewMe, Amandaslagle all of you gave me encouragement when I was down and ready to quit thank you it has made a big difference in my attitude I am greatfull

Laura wrote 87 Days Ago

Bill ...you ask to point out one prson..I can not because of my faithfulness to ALL the GREAT people here...not a single one adds more than the next to my life. They are all equal in love & compassion & support. I will however point out 1 because you asked & I can get away with this BECAUSE she is not really a person but instead a ANGEL ...Diane.....this moment for her is NOT to take away from the ENDLESS LIST OF SOULS HERE I ADORE & ADD EVERY MOMENT TO MY LIFE IN SOMEWAY..But instead to do as you ask & to say this....I never met anyone in my life or any other lifetime that was so "KIND" "GENTLE" and "CARING" for her to enter my life last Nov was the start of my life in many ways. Her generosity of HERSELF and her LOVE was unwaivered from the 1st time I met her. She has helped me Belive in myself and she has opened doors that were closed shut & locked. I would not be on this journey in many ways if not for her goodness. She is a bright light that can illuminate the skies during a storm or nurure the flowers on a sunny summers day. She is the most UNSELFISH person I will ever met and for this I thank her daily. The "people" on this site young,old,rich,poor ALL deserve kudos & for YOU Bill..for you who "envisioned" my dreams ..I thank you as well. Hugs and much support,Laura & Baby Reggie xoxoxoxoxox

Kiwigirl wrote 87 Days Ago

oh nooooooo.. I was just managing to get my little obsessive compulsive.. spend too much time on the site and not enough at the gym disorder under control... and suddenly I have a list of fantastic people's blogs to read!!!! Everyone has been fantastic - and I have tried to make sure I have told people this - however never got a chance to say THANK YOU - you are wonderful to Xena Ballarena for looking out for me when i was having a down day and getting some of the team round to pull me out of my rut.

MickyO wrote 88 Days Ago

Marty Goldman is an ace. He always has something kind to say when I just write to say hi, and is always encouraging. His vids inspire me so much. Dude is also a very cool guy with great ideas and blogs -- his threads are very nteresting on the forum to read. I'll have to check out his vids, too. :) Thank you, also, Bill for sharing Michele T.'s transformation. That is just awe inspiring. I also want to say that I was really inspired to reach for my old dream because of jim10000's profile (thank you again Jim) and he's been very encouraging. Denise is an amazing woman and her ABC's of transformation in her blog are totally cool (and highly recommended). She's just a warm lovely person. Now these are all folks I've met in the past few months on this site, and that's only a few of the wonderful people -- I could write a lot more about Plantman, Xenaballerina, Chris Haro, Dianne, Gloomraider, KathyTNT, Laura and so many others I've met recently, and then spoken to (via print) in messages, blogs and forums. I also learn and feel supported by my Pack, my RL friends who are also here: FlyEl, Jandav, Vivendi and Kiralinn and by son and husband who are also members (Mafford and Naitachal). I've become addicted to this site because every time I come here and read, I am inspired, challenged, uplifted or kicked in the butt and it's always just what I need too. I leave feeling grateful and every single time I've learned something. So thank you to everyone. <3 Micky

Kennie wrote 88 Days Ago

dude inspires me, mylo inspires me, marty inspires me. Everyone inspires me. I love it when I inspire others and that is what this is all about! :)) and make it happen. this is the life for me. kennie

socrkx wrote 88 Days Ago

I struggle with this new assignment- for me it is all about God and knowing that God is the reason I am experiencing success with this transformation. I have the courage to reach past my inability to trust people and show up and share what I have been given. I guess I will just jump on there and finish it off. Lots of people help me just by sharing their journey, I do not remember their names. There are people that I checkout more often because their stories and the honesty of their journey touches my soul. The people who welcome people all the time, no matter what, people like Mellie, Bobby, and Plantman, encourage me to go and welcome other new members to this amazing site. For me honesty is key to growth, I am drawn to truth tellers, people who face good times and bad and share it no matter what people like Jacqui and Chrisforlife. There are people whose honesty I appreciate when I want to whine and they just come back at me with the truth like Dustyluv and fogmamma. People who read my blogs and take the time to post like: Heather, jackie angel, momy of eight, jrnygrl and jovita - your encouragement changes my attitude and spurs me to continue writing and to respond when I read other peoples blogs in hopes that I make them feel as good as you make me feel. Dude who has also taken the time to read my blogs and check in just to say Hey - he helps me to feel a part of the community, Clarissa also has the wonderful ability to do this for me. When I need recovery paired with transformation I can count on Coach Stoney - what an inspiration. When looking for answers Dianne Orwig is great - there is another very transformed man I think his name is Jeremey Light, now I have to go back and check, his honesty regarding working out is great. Laura, floorance and Plantman for stopping by my page - we all want to see someone saying hello and you do that for me! Mellie - for many reasons - stopping by to say hello, always welcoming the new people, your incredible posts all over the place. And on and on and on - but back to the big inspiration - God, because without Him I would not be here to read and grow!

MinnieMe wrote 88 Days Ago

I have been sitting her for the first time reading my Assignment’s and would like to say thanks for all the love and energy I have received just reading who and why others inspire you. I think we should all take a moment and look in side and thank our self’s for just aggnolaging that we needed to make a change. I want to apologize to the community for not sharing with you up until now I thought I was the only one going through all these neat experiences. It is overwhelming to see that God is doing this with so many others I look forward to getting to know you all.... Shine The Light. John

CJ wrote 88 Days Ago

All of you. All of you who've listened, who've responded and who've help me rent the backhoe that it's gonna take to clear away all the pysical, mental and emotional debris...THANK YOU

diannabeers wrote 88 Days Ago

This is so easy and so difficult at the same time. Truly there are so many people on this site that I have learned from and who inspire me. Like Sally, I can't possibly name them all. And as part of my transformation involves quiet time for myself, I can't be on the computer so much. I've tried to limit, but as I'm sure everyone would agree, there's never enough time to read them all!! So I will give a shout out of thanks to those that I regularly "converse" with and who inspire me on a daily basis. But if your name isn't here, it doesn't mean you haven't added to my wisdom and transformation. My wonderful VOWs are at the top of the list, along with Dianne Orwig. She is so incredibly generous with her time and talent. Art's blogs always bring a smile, as do Clarissa's. Others I have gained inspiration and happiness from, not an inclusive list, are Dude, Plantman, Mellie, Coach Stoney, Jacqui, Jeffsbrodie, Dusty, kathynt, and the list goes on. My time is running out. I love all of you guys!!

Scot wrote 88 Days Ago

So many incredible testimonies of transformation to keep one inspired for a lifetime! I feel like there are superstars that inspire from example and expertise-Coach Stoney, Michelle T and Diane Orwig. Then there are MANY of us who share, and struggle, and overcome, and grow, and laugh, and well,,,,the unknowns that simply keep changing and doing whatever it takes to transform like, mom2six,annase,lindgsd, and countless others. Finally my fellow T members group of "transformation Day1 July 14 start." Not everyone blogs, but we all dream and I look forward to seeing those that will continue to come on board and change. Anyone and everyone who puts that before photo on....is totally my inspiration. AND THANKYOU LIFEIZGOOD,DIANE ORWIG,PLANTMAN,GLOOMRAIDER-My first welcomes when I posted to this site. Without that first welcome. I don't know where I'd be today.....yes I do, sitting on the couch, complaining.

CinAz wrote 88 Days Ago

I do need to add Annie to my list. She supported me and lifted me up even before Transformation. Thank you for that Annie. I didn't want you to think I didn't appreciate you for that!! See, that is why it is so hard, you come back and look and see a face that has made an impact in your life! I didn't mention Bill, and he made the biggest impact of all by bringing BFL and now Transformation to my life and this great community. It's just too difficult to only name a few.

Beth69Wells wrote 88 Days Ago

I am new to this whole share your feelings. I have always been one to keep to myself. So it might take me some time to share. I find I am embarrassed about myself, and who I am. So if I don't comment much right now. Know that I am still reading everything everyday. I know now that I am not alone in the quest to better myself. I truly believe that this time I will succeed.

GETHERDONELINDA wrote 88 Days Ago

Funny, how sometimes you tend to think no is is really listening to you or reading your blogs or posts but you keep doing it just because it helps you. That's what I've been doing and this past week I have been amazed at just how many people are paying attention and know just what I'm up to. I would like to thank Coach Stoney for his little pm to me, it made all the difference in the world to know he was seeing me grow and took the time to tell me. Thank you Coach, You inspired me to keep moving forward. Love, Linda.

aknier wrote 88 Days Ago

I agree that it is difficult to single someone out. But, in the spirit of Bill's request, and knowing that people here are either already OK with being 'left out' or are in the process of expanding their hearts to be happy for someone else who is acknowledged instead of hurt because it wasn't them... I'll name some names. With a disclaimer: This is not an all-inclusive list of everyone who has touched my heart. Michelle T; my friend and roomie, teacher and inspiration for life. alvindsv (Brian); a man who is focusing on his family and putting others first while continuing on his journey to health. TaraTN; a woman of faith and love whom I can't wait to see in TN in October. Kelli & Sarah- my teamies and sisters of heart in our current challenge. MikeHarris; always honest, open-hearted and willing to reach out in compassion. GK- I don't think we have anything at all to feel 'guilty' about if we haven't been posting here as much as some others. Just depends on why you haven't. I've been tempted to get online and invest some more time here, but I haven't done it. Why? Because I am committing my time to being the change in my own real-life community. On the cruise Bill said to me: “You are the message.” Wow! I took that one to heart. I don't worry so much about people here because I see they are already connected to a community of inspiration and guidance. It's the people I see everyday here in my hometown who I feel the need to reach out to. I’ll post more on my blog about this ‘activity’ later. Take care all- take courage- call someone out into the spotlight. ;-)

fitme wrote 88 Days Ago

I've learned so much from everyone here. Just about every time I log on I'll see something that hits me a just the thing I needed to hear. So many people are so brave and so open it's inspiring me to trust more.

GK wrote 88 Days Ago

Bill, I guess I've been guilty of not enough participation. I do check in through out the day and it's easy to connect with certain people and look no further. So I will share who inpires me since I have been here. Of course when I first came to the site Clarrisa is all through this place. Her influence and inspiration just grabs you the moment you come here. Coach Stoney is a solid mentor. I'm sure everyone knows about those two but still one should not take them for granted as they are very active and give out wisdom and inspiration daliy. Mommyofeight (Laura) is an amazing person. She is so real and her love of the Lord just comes through your computer. Sunshine123 (Kimberly) was one of the first to welcome me and she too is God sent. Very inspiring. Chrisforlife is one of my favorite reads. He inspires me more than he probably knows because of how he writes and his honesty of what he says. He writes what's in his head. He's going to accomplish more than he can even imagine I believe. I found MichelleT before you wrote about her. She really is an inspiration. I like B1200. Very talented writer. I like his heart. And ProsperAlways I like his humility I'm upate and many nights I do check out the different people on here. There's been so many more that have inspired me but I have probably failed to tell them. I MUST DO BETTER. thanks to all

ProsperAlways wrote 88 Days Ago

Only because you asked I will oblige to single out one........"Stephanie" without a doubt comes to mind for me.....she might fly under the radar on this site but long before this site was even a thought and came into existence she inspired me, my wife and countless others to walk the walk......unselfishly she gives from her heart to all those willing to listen to the message of "Believe, Achieve, Inspire!"......~ Pete

BlessedTulip wrote 88 Days Ago

The T members that inspired me are CoachBrad, Losefatnotfaith, The Motivator, St William (but that one is already famous lol), Lifeizgood, Clarissa, Jerome, Blaine, Kathy, Dustyluv (I absolutely dig this dude's sense of humor) and many more.

wescravn wrote 88 Days Ago

I think when I found the original body for work tape years ago, when the contest first began for body for life, it really inspired me. Seeing real life examples of people who had transformed like anothony ellis, and so many others like porter freeman. It was so encouraging, that I will never forget it. That made me say, you can do it.

bigd2375 wrote 88 Days Ago

Bill, You are so right on all your points that you mentioned. As a matter of fact I did a shout out to all my friends who are growing because they are helping me on the road of transformation. I love all of you guys and for a man who was racists, angry and all around on the road to destruction, this is a huge transformation and I owe it all to each and everyone of you, especially my partner who got me to go to the Success Symposium in the first place. Thanks guys!!!!

deniset wrote 88 Days Ago

I can't do it! I can't name a select few people to "spotlight". If there is anyone else who watched "romper room" and was disappointed because they were never "seen through the magic mirror" then you know why I can't. I'm with Cincinnati Dave! I see God! I see, feel and am lifted by the messengers He puts in front of me through this community everyday. We are all one body. We are all needed in order to BE and CREATE the change. Whether you see your name or not, YOU (this is where I need that pic of Uncle Sam's finger pointing at you :) YOU are the change! YOU are making a difference! You are in the "spotlight" whether you realize it or not. Keep working, keep learning, keep growing, keep transforming and keep inspiring! In His Name, Denise

Kath wrote 88 Days Ago

Thank you Bill, I so enjoy these Lessons. Taking the time to stop and deeply think about the people here is a wonderful feeling. The support is strong and honest. I've learned a great deal from my new (and not-so-new) friends and the learning continues with each day. Because of this, I am losing fears and staying close to God. It's a comfort and wonderful place to be and I want everyone to know how I deeply appreciate them and that they lift my life and give me more than I could ever express. :)

lahart wrote 88 Days Ago

Like some of the others, I hesitate to name all those who have inspired and uplifted me for fear of omitting someone. What's amazing and I think what makes this place special, is not who but when. It seems like someone will always post a tip, a story, or some encourgement that I need to keep me on track. Or someone will send me a message or a reply that gives me that little bit of inspiration or energy that I need to get me over the hump or recharged again. There is definitely strength in numbers! Thanks everyone!

Heather wrote 88 Days Ago

I learn from everyone here! Bill this site is such a gift for people changing their lives. You started a fantastic community! And a safe place where people can share themselves, grow & learn from each other. I have been very inspired by Shane. I met him for the first time last November at the Super Conference. Before there was the T-community he posted about his transformation on Joe's forum for carpet cleaners. He really put himself out there and was the motivating force for the few who participated. I admired that deeply about him. There are so many people that I could name and that have already been mentioned several times here...(Coach, Clarissa, Nancy, Mellie, Marty) those are all people that have inspired me by their posts and many have been supportive by taking the time to e-mail & comment at my own blog. Kelly( Devildogs_doll) physical transformation has been a great example for me along with Clarissa's physical & internal transformation. Sally (silly) has great posts that inspire me and make me think. I also love her great sense of humor and enthusiasm. Someone who has gone under the radar that I admire is Annissa. She has written a couple great blog posts that I think got unnoticed. I can't possibly name everyone but I learn and get inspired everytime I visit here. From reading new members starting out to members that have made great strides...everyone here has a story and something we all can learn from.

YogaMop wrote 88 Days Ago

Let's not forget the entire group "Vivacious Older Women" A fun, caring group and every one of them willing to nudge and cajole and cheer each other on to a big win and a deep transformation. Kathy

Phawkes wrote 88 Days Ago

I want to thank every single person who has reached out to me. I'm not on here often because I'm out keeping the promises I made to myself. Just because I'm not here doesn't mean I don't appreciate every single one of you. My heroes.

Humdinger wrote 88 Days Ago

WHAT an AWESOME blog, Bill...

wbrusso wrote 88 Days Ago

I have not read one profile that does not touch me in some way or another. The stories are tremendous. the lives so different- one common goal -but so many different things to face and go through to get there! I am inspired by peoples desires for new experiences and willingness to face and share the experiences they have had. I love seeing people make changes to better their lives. That gets me going and keeps me inspired to always step it up myself. I love this site, although I dont have the time to spend as much as I would like to , I make the best of the little time I do have. Everyone here is beautiful and a blessing to everyone!!!

CinAz wrote 88 Days Ago

I had the pleasure of meeting Michelle on the cruise and spending some time with her, she is everything you said about her and more! What an amazing lady. To see her photos and hear her story, gave me hope that I could "Be the Change".

CinAz wrote 88 Days Ago

So many people here have inspired and motivated me. So many have brought me to tears with some of their stories. My absolute biggest inspiration is Denise & Jonnae's story. Without a doubt. No matter how hard things are, or what is going on in my life, it can not be as hard as that struggle was. Yet they kept their faith, and praised God the entire time. I believe they are both angels sent to us to make changes in our lives. Great changes! I know they did mine. I don't get as much time here as I'd like, but the time I've spent, so many have influenced me in one way or another. Coach Stoney, my adopted big brother, Motivator, who is well, absolutely motivating, Clarissa, who's words and smile brightens my day, Marty, who beat the odds and shows us it can be done, Plantmann who's spiritual insight brightens this community daily. So, so, many more. I appreciate each and every person in this community and I really could list everyone here as an inspiration to me!

ladyliz wrote 88 Days Ago

My master's thesis was on mentoring. In fact, I was fortunate enough to be able to create a program that we are implementing at the domestic abuse center where I am the Director. We began the Shine program, which was created for young women 12-17 to be matched up with a mentor to help them develop self esteem as a prevention measure, to increase their empoweerment so they are less likely to end up in a situation where they become clients of ours as adults. Some of my fitness mentors are Monica Brant, Tosca Reno, Beth Horn, and many others. On this site I am inspired by everyone's stories and have been supported by a few people. Laura's story was one that I connected to.

Cincinnati_Dave wrote 88 Days Ago

Bill this is a great post for me to express my feelings on the special people here. Thank You! The special person in my life that gives me the most inspiration is Jesus Christ and I see him in each and every one of you! Your inspiration, Your warrior attitude, Your Loving nature and even your sympathetic ear come from the Lord. He taught us how to love ourselves and each other and continues to work through all those whose paths we cross every day. The Holy Spirit fills us with energy and hope to carry on and we are all a part of the same family with God. You are all my brothers and sisters. Ask Noah! ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ "The King will answer and say to them, 'Truly I say to you, to the extent that you did it to one of these brothers of Mine, even the least of them, you did it to Me.' Matt 25:40 Peace, Dave

Silly wrote 88 Days Ago

I've learned from just about every thread and blog on here, as well as yours, Mr. Phillips. It truly is an inspiring place. I'm not sure I'd still be going and happily growing if it weren't for Jaki (sunlightanshadows), Pete (ProsperAlways), Mae, Lisa (MSDoggirl), Heather, Susan (srb1350), Tanis (teegee), Troy (Zooman), Anita (Atwin), jeffsbrodie, and of course Laura, and my broccoli girlfriend since 2000, the lovely Diane. I feel bad because I KNOW I missed some who've inspired and uplifted... Risaandshine, Clarissa, Dianne O, Jeremy Likeness, Jan, Harleyrider, Paul (gloomraider)... dang, this could go on for a LOOONNNNG time! There's so much passion and caring and quiet wisdom to be had here. Thanks everyone. OH, and there's Dusty and Dude and Jacqui and Jan and JanM and yogamop and diannebeers and YogaJen and Maria and Debster and ... ad infinitum!

Bodyimageusa wrote 88 Days Ago

Wow! Michelle T. is such an inspiration! Now I have some hope that I can achieve anything I put my mind to! I have been slowly looseing weight for the past couple of years, however something has been missing! Now I know it's a matter of heart! Thanks Michelle T. Awesome job Dude!

Ty wrote 88 Days Ago

The only reason this assignment is so tough is becuase there are so many caring people here! I can't believe that folks like Coach Stoney and Mr Might Marty can find the time to phone or email with their encouragement as often as they do... I can only imagine how busy these guys must be! And RightLight... what an appropriate user name as her light is definatley "right"... I truly appreciate the positive energy that lady brings into my world! And then there's the Devine Ms M (Mellie)... what a wonderful giving spirit she has... again I don't know how they find the time! CoachBrad, my brother in arms and Christ, and DeniseT for their help in my spiritual growth. Dustyluvuman, Dude, Cinci-Dave, JeffBrodie, Tim, ChrisHaro, DianneOrwig, ART my AF here, and Dude for his inpiration and honest happiness. I continue to see progress and growth in all areas of my life and I'm humbled by the blessings I continue to recieve. Bless you Bill for this journey and the people that it has put in my path!! V/R, Ty

yogajen wrote 88 Days Ago

I would like to call out Pete (Prosper Always). Hehas been inspirational to everyone he meets here. His videos are wonderful and remind us that not only is this a serious journey, but that there is FUN to be had along the way. He has built a wonderful family and a wonderful life and he still has the courage to want to Transform! I also have to say that everyone I have met here has touched me in a different way. I feel old resistance falling away. There is a warmth among the members here that is hard to find in person, let alone electronically. Way to go, everyone and keep up the great work!~~Jen :)

krissywolle wrote 88 Days Ago

Thanks for reminding us of the videos, I haven't looked at any - but plan to do so today. Perhaps I'll even post my own. :) This sense of community is great, though a bit overwhleming at first. It's hard to see where to start, but once over the initial hurdle it's a very welcoming place.

Mellie wrote 88 Days Ago

I have a learning and growing experience from each new person I am able to greet into this community. Their stories can bring smiles and even tears to my eyes. They are hurting, they need help, they are at their lowest point in life and reaching out for help because they can no longer continue living as they do. They inspire me, they motivate me, they make me understand why I am here and why it is so important that I do my part to be the change. So to everyone that is new each and every day that I get the opportunity to read about and reach out to YOU make a difference and your courage to step to the plate and make a conscious decision to positively change your life for yourself and your family I thank YOU because you teach me so much. Your strength, your courage, your commitment pushes me to do that much more in my transformation.

arteach wrote 88 Days Ago

I have never been to a site before or blogged for that matter. At first I was hesitant and just laid low to see what the site was about. What I found was some great inspirations and suppoort system. Rightlight, cmgentz, amyhardy, mighty marie and chrisharo along with others have been wonderful!

wrote 88 Days Ago

I have to agree with Hope. I've focused my responses with respect to transformation, but there was a time when I was on tracker that I hit the high point of disgust and disillusionment and Dana got with me and her words of encouragement and experience helped me put things back into proper perspective that helped me stick with this lifestyle long term.

martygoldman wrote 88 Days Ago

I want to say that how much so many people here care about changing thier lives and helping others is what inspires me. So many people come by and leave me comments and check in on me and I get to visit and meet some people and get phone calls I just get so much love how can I not give it back. Marty

Hope wrote 88 Days Ago

I have to admit that I'd been hiding out and just lurking on this website until I read DanaD's blog. I've known Dana since the BFL Tracker days, but when I started reading through her recent posts and thoughts a lot of what she wrote really hit home for me. She was so honest and heartfelt in her words that I just felt like I was smacked over the head (in a good way!) It was like, "I can do this, too!!!!" I've been going back and re-reading things that she's written - she's given me hope and right now is a true inspiration! Thank you Dana! :)

hififi wrote 88 Days Ago

I don't think anyone can not agree that there are too many wonderful people to mention. We are all truely blessed to have found such a wonderful community. BUT... I must mention the July 7th-ers. The whole group are SOOoo strong & supportive of each other, it really means a lot to me, as I'm sure it does to all its members. Go July 7th-ers!! Love Fifi xx

Kelli wrote 88 Days Ago

Bill - absolutely!! There are so many great people to learn from. I happen to know Michelle personally, and she is truly an inspiration and role model! I am very happy to know her and to have her lead our Fab Five team! Kelli

Happiness wrote 88 Days Ago

I love reading members blogs and have been inspired by so many amazing people. But i have the priviledge of having known Paul AKA: Gloomraider for 13 years and his wife/my best mate Niamh from Ireland and know what almighty hell Paul has been through with niamh being right by his side throughout his ordeal. Together they are the most amazing team and the love and light that they radiate is trully something very special. Paul has so many words of wisdom and i recommend wholeheartedly that others visit his profile. It is down to these two lovely people that i was invited to this transformation so that i can share this gift.

Mark wrote 88 Days Ago

Dianne Orwig comes first to my mind. But the community as a whole is what I am greatful for mostly. Please let me take this time to give thanks to all who get involved here.

denisemay wrote 88 Days Ago

This area has been a very tough arena for me. I stepped out in the forum July 19th I believe and I have not been back. It was great getting a response back from chrisharo. I guess another low habit for me is not trusting others. When I trust others I feel I am making myself vunerable to be hurt. I read all the wonderful things happening on the forum but the fear of stepping out there envelopes me. I have been working my challenge, doing my homework, reading my goals, writing in my journal but I avoided the website. I guess now it is time for the next BIG step. I have no problem being there for others. Matter a fact I have used that as an excuse to not focus on myself. But what I am learning on this journey is that I can't be truly there for others with out opening and sharing myself. The surface thing does not cut it. I want the freedom and release of this bondage SO BAD that I am excited and committed to take this next challenage to share in the lives of all the wonderful people on this forum and to share myself. I know without doing this I can not have a transformation or be there for the transformation of others. This is a BIG one for me...ADMITTING I need others. I CAN do this it. My heart is beating rapidly thinking about it.

mich3773 wrote 88 Days Ago

Well for me...to be honest...this will be the most difficult exercise so far!! I don't blog here. I don't read other people's blog posts. I don't reach out for support. So seriously, I cannot write about this right now. What I can do is start doing those above mentioned. Oh...I do look at the pictures. They are what inspires me the most. Visible results. Especially in you ladies. I need to see where I am headed. So....look for me stalking around your sites, reading your blogs and commenting on your progress.

huntfletchshelby wrote 88 Days Ago

Everyone on this site has been so helpful and welcoming and it has been one of the best experiences. Specifically I want to thank RaceWalker for helping me find a new aerobic activity, Buccaneer for leading by example with his strength and dedication to his family and hisself, and JeffsBrodie for not only being inspirational with his progress but taking the time to uplift others. Thanks Bill for sharing this experience with so many people.

sunlightandshadows wrote 89 Days Ago

I just would not be able to pick one or two, or even eight or ten from the huge list of people who have helped and supported me on this journey. Not one person has ever been negative or unhelpful to me and every comment left on my blog has helped - whether it has just been a 'we're here' - or 'this too will pass' - or a fantastic insight that helps me to take the next step. Every single person - even those that I have not had contact directly with has helped by having the courage to show up and open up. I read many blogs and comments every day - and all of the words have an impact. Many stir a realisation inside me and help me to move forward, many give me a voice in sharing or supporting them - or just letting them know I am there. This is just an outstanding community and I would not want to leave anyone out in my praise - I would not want a momentary slip of a name to leave anyone out - as everyone is truly 'Awesome' (my favorite word since joining this community!) Even though this is no longer a competition to me - and I think many others - I would just like to say that in my book 'each and everyone of you is a winner - first class - outstanding - and yes (you guessed it ) totally Awesome! - Have a great day - Jaki :)

msdoggirl wrote 89 Days Ago

For once an assignment that I feel I already have down. In fact, every once in a while, I post a blog about all the things I learned from others on the site and how I am implementing it in my own life. My quick list of those who inspire me: Kathryntnt, Mike Harris, Dude, Silly, Clemenzaclorleone, RiseandShine, Jacqui, Dustyluv, Miss Bliss, Mae, SunlightandShadows So watch for my next blog of "What I Learned from You" -- when I review how you all make my life better. -- Lisa

MichelleT wrote 89 Days Ago

The beauty of this transformation process, or for that matter life in general, is that you can learn something from everyone, regardless of who they are. Everyone you meet has some life experience, some piece of knowledge that you probably don't have and that you could learn from. Bill and his team have put together a place where those with the intention of sharing their lessons and themselves can do so in a purposeful way. I read so much on here and pick up new insight every day. It's like life school, only I don't want it to be over at 2:30 pm. By the way, Bill, thank you for what you wrote about my transformation. If one person can see that even those with a large amount of weight can change just about everything in their life, no matter how long it takes, then my work is being done. And what joyful and rewarding work it is! To watch others change physically, mentally, and spiritually before your very eyes is truly a blessing beyond words, as you well know.

Brian wrote 89 Days Ago

I must apologize now because I cannot, or will not, point out one individual over another. The reason being is just about every person I've come in contact with on this site has inspired me one way or another. Some inspire me to pray for them others make me laugh with their subtle jokes and sense of humor. I've read heartwarming stories in many of the blogs while others brought me to tears. There are more positive thinkers in this community than any other I've seen online. Advice givers are everywhere. Helping has become contagious epidemic for just about everyone. I've been inspired by folks who have made amazing turnarounds in their lives...they make me want to accomplish the same. There are those who post more frequently than others and we all enjoy reading about their accomplishments and new realizations. I especially enjoy seing a new way of living become ones reality. Bill, all I can say is thank for your inspiration and insight that has grown over the years and for bringing us all together for the transformation. People are suffering and need help and motivation just like I needed when I joined the transformation challenge. Thanks for letting me ramble...Brian

4THEJSKW wrote 89 Days Ago

I have had the pleasure of learning from Stoney, Dianne Orwig, Michell