Hi Tigs. I'm sorry you're feeling down. I understand. I was very close to my gramma too, and I still miss her. Such a special relationship. But I know your gramma would want you to take care of yourself, so try and hang in there.
You're in my thoughts and prayers tonight.
Gaye

You are in my prayers my friend. I pray that God gives you peace and strength to endure.

You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers my friend. I know what you are going through, on the 20th of this month it will be 10 years ago I lost my dad to cancer, and I remember being there with him through the end. Just cherrish those moments and the memories will last a lifetime. Hang in there and stay strong, God our Father will watch over you and protect you and your family. May God Bless you Dear Friend!

Dearest Tigs. My heart aches for you. I think as we lose those we love, it is so much harder for those of us left behind. You must take the time you need to grieve. I am sure your Grandma will be with you, as you carry all the wonderful memories in your heart. I also believe her spirit remains alive, and as you keep on the path, you will feel her presence and love. You are definitely in my prayers! I am sending sweet thoughts toward you and your family. It is clear your Grandma was a wonderful woman and inspiration to you. I pray you will carry on her great legacy through your own life and throughout your transformation. Hugs & deepest sympathies, Christine

You have been so blessed to have her with you so long. I lost my first grandmother when I was only 3 years old and my second when I was 21. I never had a grandfather as my fathers dad passed when my dad was only 6 and my mothers father passed when I was 4.

I will pray for you for peace and comfort!

Thank you for all your thoughts and prayers... My grandma has her good days and bad days. This last weekend was pretty good she was alert and holding little conversations with people. We even got her outside on Sunday for a couple hours.. It is soo hard seeing her in good spirits sometimes cause I know she will never get better.. but on the other hand I am spending as much time as I can with her. My daughter who is almost 5 is with her everyday and my grandma responds to her all the time no matter what. They are sooo close. I just hope my daughter will be okay when the day comes and my grandma is gone

Tigs, to know that you are with her, holding her hand is all a grandmother would ever ask for. You words, the warmth, your heart, and attention are what she needs and you are giving that to her. That is making her more comfortable than any hospice worker would ever be able to provide. Please take comfort in remembering that. Never accept less. Your strength is what matters most, but your feelings are very real, and rightly so. I cannot think of any more a person could do for someone they love. So, keep being there for her. Keep holding her hand. A grandmothers's only wish for her grandchild is for them to be happy and content, warm and safe, happy and loved. Just remember her while she was well. Again, that is every grandparent's wish. I am here for you when you need me. You sharing your thoughts is very healthy, and always appreciated around here. Learning, Living, and Loving every day... Geoff

Not long ago, I held my 94 year old mother's hand as she breathed her last. She wanted to rest too. Nothing can ease the pain you have at first, and my heart is with you. But time and knowing SHE would want you to stay healthy and go on with life will be a comfort and strength, along with knowing your Heavenly Father cares. God did not create death, and I believe He grieves with us. But you will some day see that this has made you stronger through the grief and pain. Feel it, love her while you can, and be thankful for her gifts to you through the years. Then let her go in peace, and know she is safe. Hugs and love. Johnnie

Thanks everyone again for all your thoughts and prayers.. Just wanted to let everyone know that my grandma passed away this last weekend. She will be forever missed. I need to focus on one day at a time.

Thank you for sharing with us, Tigs. Our hearts go out to you and your family. Remember the good times. Grandma wants you all to remember the happy wonderful times and all the things she taught you.

Sweet hugs to you today.

~S~

Tigs-
So sorry for your loss. You are very blessed to have had your grandma in your life for so long - eternal peace is now hers, and sweet memories are yours. Give yourself permission to mourn her passing, and please remember to celebrate her life! My prayers are with you and your family
All the Best!
Mary

Tiggs- You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Love, Ami

Sorry about your grandmother I was raised by mine and I know just how precious they are. We will send out prays for you and your grandmother. Aloha.

My heart goes out to you. I waited until age 60 to hear a little voice call me "Grandma", and I know how precious that relationship can be. Your memories will be your comfort for years to come, and I'm thinking she knew well how precious she was to YOU. Hugs - Johnnie

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Originally Posted by tigs Hi all, I am having a terrible time. My Grandma Mamaw as we call her is 97 and is in the final stages of life. I am sooo deeply depressed I have stopped going to the gym and eating "right" I am barely eating. I just can't shake this. Please keep me in your prayers. I need strength..

Prayers going up for you!

Life is so precious. Your Grandma got to learn and see a lot of life! I know what you are going through. I lost my husband 12/07 and it is really hard. Don't let your exercising and eating get too far away. Your Grandma would be so proud of all that you have and will accomplish. She will come see you in your dreams.

I let everything go and now I am 40 lbs heavier and can't seem to get back into it although each day I start out strong again...I will get there...My prayers are with you. I know you will get back into it. It would be what she would want. Jan