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Okay, so I cant seem to get it together. I started on January 11th but I haven't done anything right. I got off to a bad start by not having any groceries in my house for about the first 2 weeks then I had some kind of stomach bug and had no 
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February 10, 2010 | 1. Uncategorized

A slightly different approach to volunteering.

Ok so I am one of those “crazy dog owners” that’s always looking for something wonderful to do with my four-legged best friend. Last year I discovered a little known community called
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December 7, 2009 | 4. Jake's blog

windinyourmane wrote at 10:21 AM on Mar 17, 2010

BJ!!! I am connecting with you after the Dallas event - it was so incredible. It's been awhile since you've been active. What can I do to support you? We want you on this journey with us and there is SO much incredible support!!! Write me back and let me know your thoughts, and if you want too, let's talk on the phone. Love you much. Kim

Katrina wrote at 01:43 PM on Feb 19, 2010

Maybe you can come to Denver :) That is in October! My husband plans on coming with me then! I am so excited! Bill is an amazing man, I did get to meet him in Denver but I didn't get to talk to him really.. Great speaker.. will change you life for sure! I loved every second of Denver and I am stoked about Dallas. I hope you can make it to Denver in the fall! It is so beautiful there!!! Hope you have a great weekend!!!!!

Katrina wrote at 03:58 AM on Feb 18, 2010

Glad to hear the good news! You need to do assignment #7! I am really excited about it. It's about progress not perfection. This year I have already made some amazing changes spiritually.. still working on the physical to though. I HOPE to be a size 6 and 145lbs by Dallas. it is looking promising :) I think that is the lowest weight I will probably be able to get down to since I have so much muscle mass. Are you planning on coming to Dallas?? I think if there is anyway possible that you could make it that you should try. It will change your life forever!!! Good luck on the up coming changes :) Let me know all about your progress!!!! Katrina

windinyourmane wrote at 09:41 AM on Feb 15, 2010

Hey BJ - you still here girl? Let me know how you are doing, okay!? I'm thinking of you! XO Kim

Katrina wrote at 05:50 PM on Jan 14, 2010

BJ!!! I didn't know you were still around!!!! I just thought I would stop by and stay hello :) We haven't talked in so long! Are you still riding horses and meeting hotties? LOL Hope you are having a great night! -Katrina

Mon wrote at 05:50 AM on Jan 09, 2010

Hey BJ - how's the new year been? Check out this thread: http://www.transformation.com/forum/transformation-central/22485-any-marylanders-metro-dcers-want-meet-up.html#post339982

Camila wrote at 11:46 AM on Dec 11, 2009

Hi BJ. Thanks for writing to me, I appreciate that! Yes, I'd love to meet up with you one of these days ;) Now that school is over I have a little extra time for myself! Just let me know when it works better for you. ~Camila

martygoldman wrote at 03:46 PM on Nov 21, 2009

Bj I think of you often and hope things are moving forward!! Many of us care about you!!!.....Marty

windinyourmane wrote at 01:15 PM on Nov 21, 2009

Hey BJ - thanks so much for stopping by - tell me how you are doing? How are the ponies? You've gotten so small you look just like a bee! :) XOXO

Discoqueen wrote at 08:22 AM on Nov 09, 2009

BJ- I love the way you are able to find humor in life even when things don't always go your way. Happy healing!!! Have a great week. ~~~Bobbie

Discoqueen wrote at 05:06 AM on Nov 02, 2009

I'm so glad you are here. Hope you have a great week. ~~Bobbie

ericluton wrote at 05:15 PM on Nov 01, 2009

Hey BJ. It's time to get rolling into the newest challenge. Let's go get em. Great job, Eric

BJermyn wrote at 09:08 PM on Oct 29, 2009

BJ--It was Great to hear from you!!! I am excited you are connecting with the community. We NEED you here!! How are things by you?? I hope all is well with you. Stay connected and I will talk to you soon....Have an awesome day and weekend!!! Thanks, Brian

BrettC wrote at 01:13 PM on Oct 22, 2009

BJ! I love hearing from you... catch me up... what is happening? Glad to see you back here. :-)

Discodancer wrote at 10:03 AM on Oct 22, 2009

BJ- It was awesome to hear from you. Very happy to see you connected to the community. We love you.-Spencer and Bobbie

martygoldman wrote at 04:55 AM on Oct 22, 2009

BJ Thank you so much for the love and stop by!! I sure hope you are doing well!! I do care about you!!!........Marty

clvaughn wrote at 07:36 AM on Sep 19, 2009

How have you been? I havnt been around much I know, sorry about that.

martygoldman wrote at 07:06 AM on Aug 16, 2009

Hello BJ coming by to leave some love here!! Hope you are well and loving yourself these days!! You are a good and strong women!!! Realize that as you live your life making a difference and knowing you matter to many!.....Marty

windinyourmane wrote at 12:14 PM on Aug 08, 2009

Hey BJ - how are you doing? I am loving life, having an incredible time on my ponies - loving every minute! Happy Trails girl! xo Kim

Sh0r7cak3 wrote at 11:32 AM on Aug 07, 2009

Hey BJ. Sorry to hear that things are not improving as rapidly as they should be. I'll keep you in my prayers. Thanks for always being here and being a support, Keep your chin up! This no appatite, no exercize situation is a bummer, but sometimes those types of situations open us up for spiritual and emotional growth! You are wonderful and Kind hearted! Thank you, just for being you! <3 Angela

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Hello, my name is B.J. and this is my story:

My husband passed away two years ago and somewhere along the way I lost track of myself, my ambitions, my goals and my dreams. I have only just begun to accept his loss and allow myself to move forward in life.

I realize that the last two years I have been depressed and have given up on myself. I want to get back in touch with me and redefine who I am and what makes me happy. I want to be an active participant in my own life not just a spectator!

I started my journey on January 5, 2009 and did amazingly well for my standards. Somewhere about half way through I sabotaged myself. It was easier to deal with failure than to be successful. I am at a better place with myself and I know now that I am ready not only to succeed, but to thrive! I have recently been involved in some very positive and motivating events at work which have only added to my confidence.

My Favorite Charity

American Humane

To me, Transformation Means

Changing the way I see myself, so that I change the way I am seen. To become a better person physically and emotionally. To find the faith that I lost and over come the darkness that haunts me.

My Goals

Eat clean.
Exercise.
Get back in touch with myself.
Reconnect with God and become spiritual.
Finish my degree.
Advance in my career.
Help and inspire others.
Be a leader.

My Intentions

Who I'd Like to Inspire

My family, friends & coworkers, and anyone who is looking for a hand up.

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